Some women have had lesbian affair. Their affairs are kept with secrecy so as not to comprise the relationship they have with their families and friends. An arrangement that both parties normally agree just to keep the relationship going. It normally happens when one or both are not prepared of coming out just yet.

Here are some signs that someone may have a lesbian affair:

1. She always mentions her name in a discussion;

2. She is always proud of her accomplishments;

3. She brings her home as a friend, but would most likely want to be always around her;

4. She always tags her along and would call her almost always;

5. She is happy being around her and would cook her favorite dish.

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Many married women will probably admit that they have had lesbian affairs in their lives.  While these married women are supposed to commit to their marriage vows, some are still attracted to lesbians.

Usually women who have had lesbian affairs hide it from their husbands, while others do not when husbands are comfortable with the set-up.

So, what makes a married woman fall for a lesbian? This is the type of question hovering around people’s minds. Isn’t it that a woman is supposed to be with a man, but how come women still find lesbians attractive or better than men?

The reason lies on whether or not the married woman is happy with her current relationship. A woman who is already married and still finds another woman attractive or falls for a lesbian is someone who is actually not happy with her married life. She may be happy, in some other way, like having a family she can call her own but, deep down inside, she is longing for something that only a woman can give.

Women are known to be very intimate. That being said, a woman would tend to look for intimacy with another woman if she cannot find it in her man — an intimacy that she can only find in a woman. Most people are not created equal. The same holds true for these types of women.

Indeed, only a woman knows what a woman really wants. Every woman has a different need and want, but  it is something intense if a woman finds a lesbian more attractive than her man. It’s all about intimacy that only women know, which may come in different forms. It may be sexual or non-sexual.

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A lot of people are asking what really is the difference between a bi-sexual and a bi-curious woman. Let’s examine each here:

1. A bi-curious woman is one who often wonders what is it like to be in bed with a woman. Her curiousity will push her to enter into a same sex relationship, then try it out to see if she will like it. On the other hand, a bi-sexual woman is one who has tried it with a woman and would be willing to do it again, but still finds men just attractive.

2. A bi-sexual woman is interested in dating both sexes while a bi-curious woman is interested in hooking up with a woman out of curiousity.

3. A bi-sexual woman is someone interested in having romantic or sexual relation with a woman and a man while a bi-curious woman is someone who is confused or feels multiple internal signals from both sexes and is not sure to which category she belongs.

4. A bi-curious woman is only interested in the sexual part of being with another woman while a bi-sexual woman may or may not have sexual relation with a man or woman but finds attraction to both man and woman.

5. A bi-curious woman is a straight woman who is just curious about what it is like to be with another woman while a bi-sexual woman is someone who knew within herself that she can be emotionally and sexually attracted to a man and a woman.

If you have anything to add, feel free to submit in our comments area.

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Tags: bi-curious, bi-sexual

It’s not going to be easy. Keeping a lesbian affair a secret requires a lot of effort on both parties. Some lesbian couples are quite good in keeping their relationship a secret while others are not.

If you want to keep yours a secret, here are some tips that may help you along the way:

1. Don’t let the attraction become so obvious. It’s given that temptation is always there when you are around with your partner. But, what if there are other people present? Like, when you are both attending a family party? The situation could be very difficult. A little mistake would be a disaster. Stay calm and just be who you are.

2. Avoid public display of affection. Lesbians, as women, are known to be intimate. Hold your breath! Try to avoid being intimate or showing affection when you are both in public. You’ll never know — somebody might recognize you. Conservative people will immediately judge people’s actions even if it’s just a mere holding of a hand.

3. Talk over the phone when nobody is around. The temptation to say sweet things to your loved one is always there when you hear her voice. Wait! Look around first before making that sweet talk. Yes, it is easy to say, but the consequence could be very hard on you. Be creative instead! Use your own language or code that you both only understand.

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It takes a lot of hard work to keep every relationship going, be it a lesbian or straight relationship. It all takes two to make it work. If relationship gets ugly, the other may give up the relationship and leave.

So, what if your woman completely leaves you and you want to win her back?

Winning a woman back all depends on where the problem started. If the woman started it all, chances are so slim that you can win her back. She may not be interested in you anymore. You will just be putting yourself in a hard position if you want to pursue a one-sided relationship since it’s no relationship at all. However, you don’t have to exert any effort to win back your woman if she really loves you because in the end she will come to you without any doubt so long as you’re not doing anything wrong.

You need to double your effort to win your woman back if you were the one who made a mistake in the relationship. Women usually gauge the depth of your mistake before accepting any apologies from you. It is harder for women to accept if a third party is involved. It is easier to make amends if it’s just an attitude problem of yours like being lazy with household chores. All you need to do to win her back is change that bad attitude. Help her with household chores. Get up early before she’s up and do the things that need to be done. This will please her and make her happy. Get rid of your video games if you’re into that and instead make use of that time with her. A woman loves to feel desired. She ultimately wants her partner to pursue her. Show her how much you care. Get involved with something she’s interested in. Show a genuine interest in her.

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Tags: Lesbian Living, Lesbian Love