The Universal Law of Attraction, considered to be the most powerful law in the universe, has been defined as “like attracts like” or simply put “that which is like unto themselves is drawn.”

Be that as it may, there is reason to believe that women, in general, have the tendency to be attracted to other women. In other words, even a straight woman can be attracted to another woman. So, could it be that all women are slightly lesbians?

What would you do then if a lesbian likes you? Or when a lesbian is attracted to you?

Here are some helpful tips. You can choose to ignore or follow. It’s all up to you.

1. Be straight forward. Don’t panic! It’s normal and it’s overwhelming to hear nice words from a lesbian. It’s surely is good stuff! Say it upfront that while you like her as a friend you don’t like her as your lesbian lover. Say it nicely by adding that you would prefer to have her as a friend than as a lover. Tell her that your relationship with her would be better of as friends than lovers.

2. Ignore her. Lesbians will know when a woman likes them. Ignore her if a lesbian says she likes you. Ignoring can work out best if you don’t really know the other person well. However, if you have been long time friends, ignoring her can be offensive. The best way to handle a situation like this would simply be to follow Tip #1.

3. Ride on. There are many type of lesbians who would consider riding the situation as a good opportunity to get to know the other person. The downside is it can hurt the other person’s feelings if the intention is not good.

4. Spread the word. You may want to scare the lesbian off of you by spreading the word to everyone you knew. Beware! Think before you let emotion dictate you. Ask yourself these questions. What could possibly happen if I tell my friends about the lesbian who likes me? Will they hurt her? Will they say bad words to her? What if I share it only to my mom or perhaps dad? If you are an adult, would sharing too personal issue to your friends affect your personal life and perhaps career?

5. Smile and be happy because it shows you are an attractive person.

The above are tips to help you wade through a situation where you know a lesbian likes you and you do not know what to do or where to go or whom to share it to.

If you have other tips to share, share it here.

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Christmas is just a few days away and lesbians in the District of Columbia have a reason to be merry.

The DC council voted 11-2 approving a bill allowing unions of same-sex couples. If the bill, which was approved by the DC council finally becomes law, it will not only allow unions of same-sex partners in the DC area but the whole country as well who want to commit themselves to each other in paper form.

The move is a positive action to show to the world that the District values equal and civil rights. The approval of the bill is the first step toward eventually allowing gay marriages in the nations’ capital.

The bill has 30 days review period before Congress which, by law, has the final say of the city’s bill. The mayor, who is a supporter, signed the measure at All Souls Church known for its welcoming same-sex couples. If all goes well to Congress, DC will then become the sixth place in the United States to legalize same-sex marriage to join Massachusetts, Connecticut, Vermont and Iowa.

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Lesbians feelings are unique. Unique in the sense that a lesbian’s feeling is towards a person of the same sex.

A lesbian’s love

When a lesbian loves a woman, she can go beyond borders. If left unchecked however a lesbian’s feeling can be destructive. It can sometimes cause health issues or problems. Problems arise when the feeling she wants shared with another woman fails. When love strikes, lesbians normally work what’s best for their women without minding their own. Oftentimes, lesbians who pass this route end up being destroyed from within. While lesbians are aware of this possible scenario, feelings in itself are uncontrollable. It is the lesbians heart dictating and, as human beings, their feelings are entitled to some  degree of respect.

Be that as it may, lesbians are, in the eyes of some people, abnormal and do not have the right to love women. Some would argue that women are only for men and men for women.

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Y-Woo.com received a very interesting story from a man who accidentally discovered his wife’s lesbian affair. Below is his comment to one of our articles, entitled “Lesbian Affair with a Married Woman” with question on how to get his wife and his wife’s lover to be open up more to being hugged by him and letting it linger — an affection that he feels should be mandatory in their three way relationship.

“Interesting, I’m a married man that accidentally discovered my wife’s long term lesbian affair. I came home a day early from a business trip, unannounced.

A little background statement so the scene will be clearer. We had discussed over several years of including another woman in a threeway. I know the most popular male fantasy.

We have been married for almost 15 years and together including early stages of dating for 20. Have two kids both are teens. Have what I’d call a good marriage. Wife has a super high sex drive so the sex never dropped off. Afterwards, learning from her what she was after from each was different so her being bi, she had meeting each of our (her lover’s, both husband and Lesbian lover) needs. She got most of the foreplay and soft love from her and she was primed and ready for the more aggressive straight sex we had, and yes often in the same day.

Well, back to the afternoon when I walked (slipped) in, with our anniversary coming up I just assumed that this was getting to know one another sex to make the 3way better or less awkward. So I strip down and joined in, the lover knowing who I was and afraid of both losing all contact with the wife and the fallout for the wife if she objected never objected, she herself admitted that she had had somewhat good relations with men in the past, was how she allowed herself to just go with it. Wasn’t until in the aftermath that their 3/4 confession was revealed. I say 3/4 confession as there is still something they both held back, like exactly how long for one. You know us guys, we want to know all the who, what where, when, why, and how often. Most was revealed but there were a few questions they talked around, ignored or refused to answer.

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It’s wonderful to be in the spirit of giving, of course, but be careful. Don’t drown yourself into debt. Think it through before you go gift-wild at the mall or even online. Yes, buying even modest presents for a long list of friends and relatives can add up fast. More so if you want to please your lesbian partner this holiday season by buying her a special and expensive present.

Lesbians in love can sometimes be swayed with buying special and expensive gifts to please their girlfriends. If you are using credit card as your primary payment method, then come to think of the bill. Be creative instead. Think of something that’s inexpensive or create your own special gift. There are many ways to do it.

Think outside the gift box. Why not consider giving of yourself if money is really tight. For only the cost of your time, you can spread some real holiday cheer to your special someone. Consider replacing this year’s holiday dinner at a restaurant with a trip to her kitchen. You both can prepare the meal while spending time together. Let your cooking skills shine in the kitchen. Your girl would surely love it.

Lesbian relationships does not have to be lavish. True lesbian love does not have to equate with expensive gifts but in how much you love each other as lovers and best friends.  It is the meeting of the minds and soul that is very important in any type of relationship.

Sure, your lesbian lover would love to receive a special present from you but what more can your lesbian lover ask for if you give of yourself this Christmas Day.

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