Are you a lesbian?

If you are, are you the type of lesbian who is outgoing? Or someone who likes to be alone.

If you are outgoing then perhaps you have a bunch of loyal friends around you who can help you whenever help is needed. But, what if you happen to be an introvert type of lesbian who likes to be alone? When help is needed, no one is there to turn to.

That’s why a support group is important.

If you are a lesbian, being alone in your inner struggle to find peace for who you are can give your life some misery.

Here are the main reasons why your lesbian life can be miserable:

1. You want to come out as a lesbian, but is afraid to do so for fear of being rejected by family and friends.

2. You want to talk to someone who will understand you, but nobody is there to listen to you.

3. You want to get advise and suggestions on how to court the girl of your dreams, but there is nobody who can help you out.

4. You want to buy stuff that is useful to you, but you are afraid to do so because your family or friends may not like it.

5. And the things you like doing you cannot do because you are afraid of being caught as a lesbian.

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Coming out as a lesbian is not an easy thing to do. It comes with a lot of “what ifs”, which can come in so many ways depending on your personal circumstance.

What if your family will disown you?
What if you will be fired from work if you come out of the closet?
What if…

These are examples of situations that could happen when you come out in the open. But again coming out depends on ones personal circumstance.

Coming out as a lesbian may not be hard for one whose family is very accepting and understanding or to a lesbian whose personal demeanor seems so obvious that it does not require telling anyone to know what she is. Or one of the family member is gay and is already out.

Be that as it may, coming out is what every lesbian aspire for as coming out gives us freedom and real happiness to be who we are. It gives us inner peace and a sense of direction.

So, what is your coming out story? Share it to get some kind of emotional relief.

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It was a beautiful Saturday morning at the cherry farm when a friend made a startling revelation about her true identity. Though she sometimes dressed up like a man it never crossed my mind that she too likes women.

She’s been with the same woman for 17 long years. Let’s hide their names as Jasper and Amber.

Jasper is married to a man and had a son. Amber, on the other hand, is also married to a man and was blessed with two sons and a daughter. Both had been unhappy with their marriages. Jasper admits she started to like women way before she married her husband. Was she trying to hide her lesbianism? Jasper said she only wanted to live a normal life the main reason why she decides to marry her husband. On the other hand, Amber married her husband who is an overseas contract worker. He is always out of the country for overseas work and would only come home once a year or once every two years. She is straight who happens to fall in love with her lesbian friend.

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Lesbians are normal human beings.

In an article entitled, “Sexual Functions in Lesbians and Lesbian Relationships”, published by the Institute for Personal Growth, the American Psychiatric Association officially de-classified homosexuality as a mental illness and most healthcare professional have gradually accepted the view that being lesbian is a sexual variation rather than a disease.

They are normal except that they have unique needs and concerns and people should try to understand that and be open to their unique identities.

The struggle of lesbians for acceptance come in so many ways. An article entitled, “Lesbians and Gays are not abnormal“, it mentioned of Indian lesbians and gays continued fight for their rights for over 15 years. They petitioned for the repeal of Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code.

Lesbians, no matter how they feel towards people of the same sex, are normal. They are just who they are. No matter what people say, lesbians are still God’s creation just like everybody else. People should learn to provide space for every human being to live and love with freedom, dignity and respect irrespective of sexual orientation.

Are you still single? Have you ever wondered why you are still single up to this minute? If you are you might consider taking this short quiz at this cool site onlinedating.org. They have a cute application where you will be asked seven questions. Once you’re done answering, it will do some secret computation and give you an answer to a question you’ve been wondering all your life.

I took the test not once but twice and it gave me the same answer. Well, it says I’m single because ” I believe that any species that can’t work a toilet seat is inferior”.  It’s not the result that I expect to get but that’s what it is after the second round.

For those of you who have partners, you can still try it out and probably it will give you an answer why you’ve been single years before. Try it out and share your results in the comments area.

Here’s a new revelation from Lindsay Lohan about her relationship with DJ Samantha Ronson. According to Omg, she is now finally speaking about the relationship. Read the full story HERE.

It’s another interesting coming out story from a very well known celebrity.