Love. It is the most beautiful word in the dictionary. Everyone wants it and even chases it. Love is the most beautiful feeling one can have. It fills your life with everything even when you have nothing. But, what if the love you have turns into a nightmare?

Here is a story of a straight woman who was deeply in love with her long-time lesbian partner, but was betrayed and was devastated. They’ve been together for three years living the life every lesbian couple could imagine.

The betrayal

She trusted her lesbian partner. She caters to her needs and all that goes with the role of a housewife. She thinks that everything in their lesbian relationship was okay and that they will never separate ways. They promised to be together for the rest of their lives.

It turns out that her lesbian partner has a lesbian affair with another woman. She was very devastated. She never expected her lesbian partner to betray her after all that she did for her. The lesbian partner she thinks she will have for the rest of her life is having a lesbian affair with another woman.

Dear Jandi,

Breaking up with someone you love is the most painful and stressful thing that you can feel specially if your partner betrayed you. The person you thought you could trust and count on is no longer the person you believed them to be.

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Tags: Lesbian Affair, lesbian couple, lesbian partner, Lesbian Relationship, partner betrayal

A question from one of our avid followers:

I met a beautiful lesbian girl about a year ago. There was not anything that I would not do for her or give her. I had always treated her like a queen. We began going out to lunch and sometimes dinner and, on some occasions, she would visit me at my home. The last time we were together she said that she would like to perform domamatrix on me and I agreed! It was the most wonderful eleven hours of passionate love making that I had ever experienced in my life! She kept telling me how much she loved me and how many ways that she loved me, and I believed her. I was already in love with her, now I am hopelessly, head over heels in love with her! I even hope to marry her one day if she would have me but she seems to hate me for not stopping her from making love to me. I have not heard from her in over a month and I have called her a dozen times. I’m afraid that I have lost the only woman that I have ever truly loved. My heart is broken and I feel so lost without her in my life. I would do almost anything to have her back. I had told her that I would commit to only her prior to our love making. I had also been without sex almost five years before her and I had gotten together.

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As with other kind of relationships, lesbian relationships do fail.

Let’s face it. No matter how hard we try to maintain a good and meaningful relationship towards our partners, it does sometimes fail.

Here are the probable culprits:

• Lack of trust. When there are negative events happening which go unprocessed they are most likely remembered and repeatedly rehearsed and turned over and over in a person’s mind. When this happens, trust erodes. In other words, with the continuous bombardment of negative events in the relationship these will create havoc and could possibly evolve the continuous erosion of trust and the increasing chance of betrayal.

Trust is an important part in any kind of relationship. When trust fails, relationship fails.

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Some married men feel threatened by their wives lesbian affairs.

Here are some scenarios as to why some wives have lesbian affairs:

1. The husband lacks the charm and warmth;

2. The husband is not caring;

3. The husband does not show love at all;

4. The husband is irresponsible;

5. The husband lacks the personality wives are looking for;

6. The wife is gay or lesbian. What type of lesbian is she?

7. The wife feels complete when being with a lesbian.

The list can go on. These husbands then want their wives to feel guilty about their lesbian affairs. So, how can a husband do it?

Here are some tips to make your wife feel guilty about her lesbian affair:

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There are advantages as well as disadvantages of being a woman in terms of sex appeal. One advantage is that a woman has the possibility of attracting both persons of the same and opposite sex. And many women have proven themselves that sometimes that’s the case. While this scenario could be flattering to a woman who is able to attract both men and women, it also has many disadvantages.

Yes, it can be fun, exciting and flattering if you, as a woman, is able to attract both persons of the same and opposite sex. But, what if you are already married? Now, that’s a disadvantage.

While a woman who is single may find it enjoyable to be with another woman, it could turn a family life apart in the case of a married woman. A single woman, unlike married women, can choose to have a lesbian affair. She may be free to do so as she has no commitment with anyone. And, unlike single women, a married woman’s emotional freedom is tied to the marriage vows. While there are husbands who openly accept their wives having a lesbian affair, still others hate to hear and see their wives having a lesbian affair. The freedom to have an affair for a married woman is no longer present. And if she choose to do so, there are great repercussions she has to face.

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Tags: lesbian, Lesbian Affair, married woman with lesbian affair

Should a husband leave his wife to ease his pain and jealousy over wife’s lesbian affair? Or should he support her all the way on whatever makes her happy, thereby, bear all the pain and jealousy?

This is a letter from husband who endured lots of pain and jealousy because of wife’s lesbian affair.

Wife Has a Lesbian Affair

Pardon me as a man for reading and joining in. My wife is in love with a lesbian. She is still in love with me too. There are many complexities which I don’t need to go into here, but I do want to say that we have all been making it work for more than six years now. This dyke was attracted to my wife and became her best friend for about a year before letting her know about her attraction. When she did begin to try to draw her to her sexually, she talked with me about it at key points. They didn’t sleep together or even kiss before we all agreed it was all right. I was willing for my wife to have a woman lover but I had no idea how far they would go. Everything said here about how only a woman can give a woman what she needs, and about the feeling of intensity and addiction, rings true to their experience. Yes I have struggled with lots of pain and jealousy. But I can see my wife’s happiness and knowing that she still loves and wants me makes such a difference. All the relationships between us have grown close and intimate over time. If this dyke hadn’t gone with her heart feelings none of this would have happened. On balance I am glad she was not prudent or careful.

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