Have you ever been strongly attracted to a woman? Chances are you are a lesbian. But, how do you know exactly if the woman you are strongly attracted to is also attracted to you?

Most lesbians will admit there is no easy answer.

Unless the woman you are strongly attracted to will boldly show signs that she is also interested in you, then there is no way you can tell that she also likes you.

A lesbian experience

I have my share of story to share.

When I was in Grade school, I was strongly attracted to a girl in my class. We became friends that there are times I end up sending her to her house after school. It is my own special way of showing to the girl that I really care about her. We became really close, but she never showed any indication that she is also attracted to me. I was however sure she knows that I am attracted to her, which is pretty obvious from my actions, but I cannot really tell if she is also attracted to me. She never showed any sign at all. Until one day, she visited me at my house, which is very surprising. Then we lost touch after graduation.

That was 30 plus years ago.

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Opposites attract and so are lesbians. Lesbians attract women of all types sometimes even without them making any advances. But while it is seldom heard of, it does happen in some mysterious and surprising ways.

So, are you a straight woman falling for a lesbian? You are not alone. There are many women who are into the same situation. Women would rather not talk about it if they fall for their lesbian friend. These women would prefer keeping it a secret rather than endangering their reputation or fear of rejection.

Falling in love?

No matter how straight you are, there is a great possibility that you will fall for a lesbian. This happens when you are with lesbian friends. When you become close to one of your lesbian friends things can get tricky that the line between pal and passion becomes too cloudy.

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There are advantages as well as disadvantages of being a woman in terms of sex appeal. One advantage is that a woman has the possibility of attracting both persons of the same and opposite sex. And many women have proven themselves that sometimes that’s the case. While this scenario could be flattering to a woman who is able to attract both men and women, it also has many disadvantages.

Yes, it can be fun, exciting and flattering if you, as a woman, is able to attract both persons of the same and opposite sex. But, what if you are already married? Now, that’s a disadvantage.

While a woman who is single may find it enjoyable to be with another woman, it could turn a family life apart in the case of a married woman. A single woman, unlike married women, can choose to have a lesbian affair. She may be free to do so as she has no commitment with anyone. And, unlike single women, a married woman’s emotional freedom is tied to the marriage vows. While there are husbands who openly accept their wives having a lesbian affair, still others hate to hear and see their wives having a lesbian affair. The freedom to have an affair for a married woman is no longer present. And if she choose to do so, there are great repercussions she has to face.

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Are you a lesbian? Do you know the reason why you prefer to be romantically linked with a woman rather than with a man? As a lesbian, do you have the right to love a woman? If you know or you do not know the answer, share your thoughts so every lesbian can learn from each other.

Lesbians in General

Generally, lesbians prefer to be romantically linked with a woman rather than with a man.  Lesbians will most likely envy men rather than being romantically linked with them.

The Exception

Unless the lesbian is a bi-sexual woman, she may not want to be with a man.

Being a lesbian is confusing in itself

Being a lesbian is confusing in itself.  Some of these confusions center on their being and why they were born the way they are. Most likely questions that will crop up a lesbian’s mind are why on earth I was born this way, why am I attracted to women instead of men and what is in me that made me a lesbian? These are questions that perhaps science still have to uncover.

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The Universal Law of Attraction, considered to be the most powerful law in the universe, has been defined as “like attracts like” or simply put “that which is like unto themselves is drawn.”

Be that as it may, there is reason to believe that women, in general, have the tendency to be attracted to other women. In other words, even a straight woman can be attracted to another woman. So, could it be that all women are slightly lesbians?

What would you do then if a lesbian likes you? Or when a lesbian is attracted to you?

Here are some helpful tips. You can choose to ignore or follow. It’s all up to you.

1. Be straight forward. Don’t panic! It’s normal and it’s overwhelming to hear nice words from a lesbian. It’s surely is good stuff! Say it upfront that while you like her as a friend you don’t like her as your lesbian lover. Say it nicely by adding that you would prefer to have her as a friend than as a lover. Tell her that your relationship with her would be better of as friends than lovers.

2. Ignore her. Lesbians will know when a woman likes them. Ignore her if a lesbian says she likes you. Ignoring can work out best if you don’t really know the other person well. However, if you have been long time friends, ignoring her can be offensive. The best way to handle a situation like this would simply be to follow Tip #1.

3. Ride on. There are many type of lesbians who would consider riding the situation as a good opportunity to get to know the other person. The downside is it can hurt the other person’s feelings if the intention is not good.

4. Spread the word. You may want to scare the lesbian off of you by spreading the word to everyone you knew. Beware! Think before you let emotion dictate you. Ask yourself these questions. What could possibly happen if I tell my friends about the lesbian who likes me? Will they hurt her? Will they say bad words to her? What if I share it only to my mom or perhaps dad? If you are an adult, would sharing too personal issue to your friends affect your personal life and perhaps career?

5. Smile and be happy because it shows you are an attractive person.

The above are tips to help you wade through a situation where you know a lesbian likes you and you do not know what to do or where to go or whom to share it to.

If you have other tips to share, share it here.

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