There are advantages as well as disadvantages of being a woman in terms of sex appeal. One advantage is that a woman has the possibility of attracting both persons of the same and opposite sex. And many women have proven themselves that sometimes that’s the case. While this scenario could be flattering to a woman who is able to attract both men and women, it also has many disadvantages.

Yes, it can be fun, exciting and flattering if you, as a woman, is able to attract both persons of the same and opposite sex. But, what if you are already married? Now, that’s a disadvantage.

While a woman who is single may find it enjoyable to be with another woman, it could turn a family life apart in the case of a married woman. A single woman, unlike married women, can choose to have a lesbian affair. She may be free to do so as she has no commitment with anyone. And, unlike single women, a married woman’s emotional freedom is tied to the marriage vows. While there are husbands who openly accept their wives having a lesbian affair, still others hate to hear and see their wives having a lesbian affair. The freedom to have an affair for a married woman is no longer present. And if she choose to do so, there are great repercussions she has to face.

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Are you a lesbian? Do you know the reason why you prefer to be romantically linked with a woman rather than with a man? As a lesbian, do you have the right to love a woman? If you know and even if you don’t know, just share your thoughts so every lesbian can learn from each other.

Lesbians in General

Generally, lesbians prefer to be romantically linked with a woman rather than with a man.  Lesbians will most likely envy men rather than being romantically linked with them.

The Exception

Unless the lesbian is a bi-sexual woman, she may not want to be with a man. She may marry a man to try to live a normal life, but chances are she will most likely go back to her normal ways, that of being a lesbian.

Being a lesbian is confusing in itself

Being a lesbian is confusing in itself.  Some of the confusion thoughts center on their being and why they were born the way they are. Most likely questions that will crop up a lesbian’s mind are, “Why on earth I was born this way”, “Why am I attracted to women instead of men?” and “What is it in me that made me a lesbian?” These are questions that perhaps science still has to uncover.

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The Universal Law of Attraction, considered to be the most powerful law in the universe, has been defined as “like attracts like” or simply put “that which is like unto themselves is drawn.”

Be that as it may, there is reason to believe that women, in general, have the tendency to be attracted to other women. In other words, even a straight woman can be attracted to another woman. So, could it be that all women are slightly lesbians?

What would you do then if a lesbian likes you? Or when a lesbian is attracted to you?

Here are some helpful tips. You can choose to ignore or follow. It’s all up to you.

1. Be straight forward. Don’t panic! It’s normal and it’s overwhelming to hear nice words from a lesbian. It’s surely is good stuff! Say it upfront that while you like her as a friend you don’t like her as your lesbian lover. Say it nicely by adding that you would prefer to have her as a friend than as a lover. Tell her that your relationship with her would be better of as friends than lovers.

2. Ignore her. Lesbians will know when a woman likes them. Ignore her if a lesbian says she likes you. Ignoring can work out best if you don’t really know the other person well. However, if you have been long time friends, ignoring her can be offensive. The best way to handle a situation like this would simply be to follow Tip #1.

3. Ride on. There are many type of lesbians who would consider riding the situation as a good opportunity to get to know the other person. The downside is it can hurt the other person’s feelings if the intention is not good.

4. Spread the word. You may want to scare the lesbian off of you by spreading the word to everyone you knew. Beware! Think before you let emotion dictate you. Ask yourself these questions. What could possibly happen if I tell my friends about the lesbian who likes me? Will they hurt her? Will they say bad words to her? What if I share it only to my mom or perhaps dad? If you are an adult, would sharing too personal issue to your friends affect your personal life and perhaps career?

5. Smile and be happy because it shows you are an attractive person.

The above are tips to help you wade through a situation where you know a lesbian likes you and you do not know what to do or where to go or whom to share it to.

If you have other tips to share, share it here.

Tags: Lesbian Attractions

Women! Are we all slightly lesbians?

This was the question raised by a man who thinks that women, in general, who seem attracted to other women usually have sexual feelings towards them or are slightly lesbians. Perhaps this guy has a dating problem or problem going after the woman he is interested in. It could also be that the woman he is interested in may not be interested in him but, instead, interested in another woman — a scenario that can be a bit confusing to the guy. But, how do you exactly gauge a woman as to whether or not she is a lesbian? Or slightly lesbian?

The answer depends largely on the woman’s perspective. From a straight woman’s perspective, she can definitely say that she does not feel any sexual feelings towards other women at all. Or she can openly say, “the woman” is “very attractive” but it doesn’t mean she is a lesbian. To a straight woman, showing signs of attraction to another woman is simply noticing another woman’s traits which she doesn’t have that she wants for herself to catch a man. It can also be that she is merely wanting to be like the woman she admired as “very attractive,” but not necessarily liking her. These women could just be wishing that, what beautiful things they see in other women, they could somehow have for themselves.

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As women, we don’t like to think and hear stories about women dating women, unless you are a lesbian who gets excited about women dating women. Women dating women stories are not like stories about men dating women as these stories are mostly disliked or frowned upon. But, don’t you know that, as a woman, you may already have attracted a lesbian? She may already be keeping an eye on you or she may already be crazy about you. In fact, this could very well happen without you knowing it.

So, how will you know if a lesbian likes you?

Here are tell-tale signs that a lesbian likes you:

1. The way she looks at you. The way a lesbian looks at a woman she likes is different from the way she looks at a woman she doesn’t like or just admire.  A lesbian who admires a woman glance only once in a while, but a lesbian who is attracted to a woman can’t seem to stop staring at her.

Is there a woman that kept staring at you? Can’t she not take off her eyes on you? Chances are she may be a lesbian and is attracted to you. Does she glances at you more often? She may just have admired you, but if she looks at you longer than she would normally do then she may be a lesbian and is attracted to you. If you look at her does she look at you straight in the eye?

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Women are created equal, but there are unique qualities of a woman, physical or not, that can draw a lesbian’s attention.

So, what exactly is in a woman that attracts lesbians?

Taste of a Lesbian

A lesbian’s taste on women is no different from the taste of men. Like men, lesbians have different tastes. Generally, lesbians like women of all types, but there are qualities of a woman that may draw a lesbian’s attention or can glue a lesbian’s eyes.

There are those drawn by the personality of a woman, while others are attracted by the physical appearance of a woman. There are also women who can easily catch the eyes of a lesbian like the ones with beautiful face, nice hair, butt, legs, etc. Other lesbians are attracted to dark haired, brown-eyed feminine type of woman, while others like blue-eyed, blonde-haired athletic woman.

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