By all accounts, lesbians are usually the ones who want to seduce women but, surprisingly, there are also women who want to seduce lesbians. What made these women like or want a lesbian is something that men are jealous about.

Interestingly enough, the fact is, it is easier for women to seduce and woo a lesbian rather than the other way around.

So, how does a woman actually seduce a lesbian?

It all depends. But, basically, it all starts with friendship.

Unless you are already friends, new or old, you will have to make extra effort to get into her. In the case of friends, it’s both easy and hard. Easy in the sense that since you already both knew each other, it might be that your lesbian friend already have some idea that you like her or that you are already flirting with her. But, sometimes, lesbians want to play hard to get. However, most of the times they can’t resist temptations.

It becomes hard to seduce your lesbian friend when she feels that there is no chemistry between the two of you. In this way, what you can do is find her weakness. What does she like or dislike? Lesbians who feel they are important and cared for will more likely attract attention and it’s the kind of attention that can sometimes lead into something else. Take it from there.

A woman who wants to seduce a lesbian whom she barely know need make some extra effort to get the lesbian’s attention. If you fall into this category, the best that you can do is to look pretty and act flirty, it surely will make her head spin.

But, above all else, it’s all in the eyes. Let your eyes work wonders.

So, how do you seduce your lesbian crush?

If you are a lesbian and you have a sacred mission to convert a straight woman because you’re so crazy about her then you need to master the art of seduction. Seduction is an art and the thrill of seduction lies in the chase. The excitement of wanting and pursuing her can give a sense of satisfaction in itself. If you have plenty of self-confidence you will generally enjoy the chase with the likelihood of success.

Plan and set up a time and the right place knowing you will be alone for some period of time or consider reading this article on How to seduce straight women.

Once you’ve made it known that you are attracted to her, you’ll need to let her know where the encounter should be heading. Seduce, surrender and enjoy!

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Lesbians’ feeling towards women are just like how men feel towards women. Lesbians are attracted or most likely will flirt with women who they find attractive by their own standards. While lesbians differ in standards, they are mostly attracted to pretty and gorgeous women. Some would go for brains.

Lesbians are attracted and will start flirting with a woman who they find they have a strong feeling or connection with. The attraction is not because the woman has a nice butt, but it is something they feel towards the other person. A feeling of wanting to spend a lot of time with the other person that she finds different from all the rest of the girls.

So, how can you tell if a lesbian is attracted to you? There are many ways to tell if a lesbian is attracted to you.

When a lesbian feels strongly towards a woman, her actions become obvious. Her eyes sparkle.

The human eye functions like the lens of a camera. It dilates the pupil to allow more light into the eye; constricting the pupil to allow less light into the eye. When more light is allowed into it, then the eye will give a sparkling effect. A woman’s eye pupils tend to dilate when viewing an object of desire, allowing more light into the eye so that she can see more of her desired object.

To know if someone is trying to flirt with you can be tricky. Flirting is an art. It is a two-way process. It can be subtle or overt.

Here are some subtle signs of flirting:

1.  When you are out together, she may try sitting close to you. Try to observe if she moves closer or farther away.

2. When you are sitting on a couch and your thighs touch, does she let it stay or inch away?

3. She will open the door for you to walk through.

4. She will say nice things about you.

5. She can’t get off her eyes on you.

Many married women will probably admit that they have had lesbian affairs in their lives.  While these married women are supposed to commit to their marriage vows, some are still attracted to lesbians.

Usually women who have had lesbian affairs hide it from their husbands, while others do not when husbands are comfortable with the set-up.

So, what makes a married woman fall for a lesbian? This is the type of question hovering around people’s minds. Isn’t it that a woman is supposed to be with a man, but how come women still find lesbians attractive or better than men?

The reason lies on whether or not the married woman is happy with her current relationship. A woman who is already married and still finds another woman attractive or falls for a lesbian is someone who is actually not happy with her married life. She may be happy, in some other way, like having a family she can call her own but, deep down inside, she is longing for something that only a woman can give.

Women are known to be very intimate. That being said, a woman would tend to look for intimacy with another woman if she cannot find it in her man — an intimacy that she can only find in a woman. Most people are not created equal. The same holds true for these types of women.

Indeed, only a woman knows what a woman really wants. Every woman has a different need and want, but  it is something intense if a woman finds a lesbian more attractive than her man. It’s all about intimacy that only women know, which may come in different forms. It may be sexual or non-sexual.

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As humans, lesbians do fall in love easily. Although they have different tastes and standards, lesbians by all means are just like men. They are into women who are physically attractive.

A lesbian who finds her best friend attractive will have a hard time dealing with her feelings. She will then have to choose between her feelings and that of keeping the friendship.

Here are some tips that maybe of help when faced with a situation like this:

1. Communicate. Talk with your best friend and tell her how you feel. Explain to her that you’ve been this way all along and that you just kept the feelings to yourself for fear of losing the friendship. If she understands you, great!

2. Avoid her. If you are too shy to communicate then try to avoid her for the time being until such time that you’re ready to talk. By then, you may be sure of your feelings. Chances are she may approach you and ask what is going on. Be prepared to tell her how you feel. Explain that you don’t expect yourself to feel that way and that you are sorry.

Either way, you have to make a decision for yourself and for the sake of your friendship. When I explained to my best friend what I feel towards her, she told me that we can still be the best of friends despite my sexual preference.

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It’s a fact that straight women want stable and monogamous relationship with men. They want a long term relationship with their ideal man; grow old together through thick and thin.

The desire is something they can be proud of to family and friends. But just how much they can hold on to it takes a lot of hard work, prayer and patience. And just like any relationship, there is always good times and bad. If relationship cannot be fixed, they end up hurting each other. Emotionally, it is the woman who is usually the ones hit hard. Moving on for her is a very painful process.

Most women who, after a bad relationship with men, seek comfort from women friends. While still on the healing process these women are vulnerable. Some end up entering into another relationship with another man so soon just to get over with the past. Some would fall into a relationship that’s never expected to happen to a straight woman.

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