
Asking a girl out is not easy, especially for lesbians who are a little shy and don’t want to ruin the chances with what feels like the girl of their dreams. Even men find it hard to find the right words to say too. But don’t worry because most girls will give you a chance for the mere act of trying but you have to step up and be bold or you will forever wonder what if.
Below are steps and tips on how to ask a girl out, draw some courage from it and ask her out. Remember, all you have to do is relax and be yourself!
1. Approach the girl. Be yourself and say “hi” then ask a question or give a compliment. This sounds very simple but can be quite scary, especially if the girl looks unfriendly.
2. Flirt a little. Take a deep breath, relax, crack a joke or, if you have the courage, break the touch barrier.
3. Gauge her interest. Take note of the eye contact. Did she smile when you said “hi”. When you crack that joke, did she laugh? Is her responses to your questions or compliments showed enthusiasm? Try to read the body language. What did it say? Observe how she looks at you. If she likes you, she will hold it for a long time or pull right away if she doesn’t. But pulling away could also mean that she may just be nervous though she likes you. Try to glance at her and if she stares back at you then this means she likes you although she may quickly dart her head in a different direction. Take notice if she touches you more often than most friends do. You can be on the right track, if she finds excuses to do so but don’t assume that just because she isn’t touching you that she doesn’t like you. She may just be nervous yet.
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