A lot of people are asking what really is the difference between a bi-sexual and a bi-curious woman. Let’s examine each here:

1. A bi-curious woman is one who often wonders what is it like to be in bed with a woman. Her curiousity will push her to enter into a same sex relationship, then try it out to see if she will like it. On the other hand, a bi-sexual woman is one who has tried it with a woman and would be willing to do it again, but still finds men just attractive.

2. A bi-sexual woman is interested in dating both sexes while a bi-curious woman is interested in hooking up with a woman out of curiousity.

3. A bi-sexual woman is someone interested in having romantic or sexual relation with a woman and a man while a bi-curious woman is someone who is confused or feels multiple internal signals from both sexes and is not sure to which category she belongs.

4. A bi-curious woman is only interested in the sexual part of being with another woman while a bi-sexual woman may or may not have sexual relation with a man or woman but finds attraction to both man and woman.

5. A bi-curious woman is a straight woman who is just curious about what it is like to be with another woman while a bi-sexual woman is someone who knew within herself that she can be emotionally and sexually attracted to a man and a woman.

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It’s not going to be easy. Keeping a lesbian affair a secret requires a lot of effort on both parties. Some lesbian couples are quite good in keeping their relationship a secret while others are not.

If you want to keep yours a secret, here are some tips that may help you along the way:

1. Don’t let the attraction become so obvious. It’s given that temptation is always there when you are around with your partner. But, what if there are other people present? Like, when you are both attending a family party? The situation could be very difficult. A little mistake would be a disaster. Stay calm and just be who you are.

2. Avoid public display of affection. Lesbians, as women, are known to be intimate. Hold your breath! Try to avoid being intimate or showing affection when you are both in public. You’ll never know — somebody might recognize you. Conservative people will immediately judge people’s actions even if it’s just a mere holding of a hand.

3. Talk over the phone when nobody is around. The temptation to say sweet things to your loved one is always there when you hear her voice. Wait! Look around first before making that sweet talk. Yes, it is easy to say, but the consequence could be very hard on you. Be creative instead! Use your own language or code that you both only understand.

Keeping a long-distance relationship across the miles is no easy task. It requires hard work, perseverance and patience. Those of us who have been there can all attest that it is very hard.

There are different kinds of long-distance relationships, but the more daunting one is a long distance relationship between lesbians.

A lesbian who is involved in a long-distance relationship should prepare herself in making the relationship work. While it is hard even if both are residing in the same country and one can easily visit the other, it is even harder for couples who are separated not just by distance but by immigration issues as well. The complexity of getting a partner to join the other is sometimes the reason of a relationship breakdown.

Here are some tips to keep the relationship survive and thrive:

1. Defining your terms. One can ease a lot of discomfort and confusion by defining the expectations in advance. Unless you are comfortable with a casual, non-exclusive relationship, one should be prepared to move and join the other. Physical proximity makes a lot of difference in making a relationship grow.

2. Communication. Talk more often on the phone. If the phone bill is rising, send an email or use the free services of Skype. Both of you can talk long hours without worrying about the bill. And there are more free services out there that you can tap. You just need to find a way to limit your cost. Use the phone only when necessary. It’s more exciting also to send email once in a while. Send an e-card or leave a voice message.
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Everybody wants to have a steady and stable relationship. Who would not want to be happy and be with the one they love? You both worked so hard to keep the relationship going, yet you both feel that something isn’t just right. Love fades away and misunderstandings come in.

They say money can’t buy happiness. You may have everything in life, but there will always be a feeling of emptiness within you when you don’t have anybody to share it with. While this may not be true for some, this holds true for others.

It doesn’t matter who leaves who. Whether you left your partner or she’s the one who left you, the pain is hard to bare. Moving on is like climbing the highest peak of a mountain. Questions will come to mind of whether or not you will be able to survive.  Chances are very slim if the memories kept coming back. Frustration, loneliness and emptiness will haunt you every minute of the day.

Here are some tips on how you can easily transition yourself after a hard break-up:
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It’s a fact that straight women want stable and monogamous relationship with men. They want a long term relationship with their ideal man; grow old together through thick and thin.

The desire is something they can be proud of to family and friends. But just how much they can hold on to it takes a lot of hard work, prayer and patience. And just like any relationship, there is always good times and bad. If relationship cannot be fixed, they end up hurting each other. Emotionally, it is the woman who is usually the ones hit hard. Moving on for her is a very painful process.

Most women who, after a bad relationship with men, seek comfort from women friends. While still on the healing process these women are vulnerable. Some end up entering into another relationship with another man so soon just to get over with the past. Some would fall into a relationship that’s never expected to happen to a straight woman.

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It’s a bit lonely living life alone as a lesbian. You may have your friends and family around but, truth is, you still need a different kind of care and affection. You are searching for something that your family and friends cannot give you. As the saying goes, “No man is an island.” It’s true, “people need people.”

Want to look for a date? There are many ways to look for a date. You might want to do it offline or online. Offline dating would be dating someone you already know in the real world, while online would be virtual dating.

If you have a difficulty finding a date because you don’t want to expose your sexual preference to the people around you then you might consider online dating. There are numerous dating sites you can find online but be picky. And be careful, because you will be dealing with people you really do not know in person.

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