Love. It is the most beautiful word in the dictionary. Everyone wants it and even chases it. Love is the most beautiful feeling one can have. It fills your life with everything even when you have nothing. But, what if the love you have turns into a nightmare?

Here is a story of a straight woman who was deeply in love with her long-time lesbian partner, but was betrayed and was devastated. They’ve been together for three years living the life every lesbian couple could imagine.

The betrayal

She trusted her lesbian partner. She caters to her needs and all that goes with the role of a housewife. She thinks that everything in their lesbian relationship was okay and that they will never separate ways. They promised to be together for the rest of their lives.

It turns out that her lesbian partner has a lesbian affair with another woman. She was very devastated. She never expected her lesbian partner to betray her after all that she did for her. The lesbian partner she thinks she will have for the rest of her life is having a lesbian affair with another woman.

Dear Jandi,

Breaking up with someone you love is the most painful and stressful thing that you can feel specially if your partner betrayed you. The person you thought you could trust and count on is no longer the person you believed them to be.

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Tags: Lesbian Affair, lesbian couple, lesbian partner, Lesbian Relationship, partner betrayal

Are you dating someone way over your age? Or, are you dating someone so much younger than you are.

If you are then take a deep breath and think before you fall into a trap.

Most people who have a huge age gap, say 10 – 20 years age gap, are most likely to fail in the relationship.

Here are a few of the reasons why:

1. You will not have the same likes. People older have their own thing so with younger ones too. The older one likes the older ways and vice versa.

2. You will not have the same wants. For sure, because of your age gap, your wants will be very different.

3. You will not have the same sense of purpose in life. Older people tend to be more focused in life than younger ones with some exceptions.

4. You will not have the same wave length in any discussion. Older people are more serious in discussions than younger ones.

5. You will not have the same energy in anything you do. As people age, energy fades.

6. Jealousy will always ensue. Older people are the ones that usually gets jealous in the relationship.

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Tags: age difference, age gap, relationship problem

Do you think money is more important than love?

Everything in modern society is based on money. Being rich allows you to do what you what. Money certainly buys you comfort. With money, we can obtain an advanced education that may aid us in the development of genius and extra ordinary achievements. Money is the means by which we may fulfill our purpose in a larger and better way. Money is important for a successful life. If you are financially strong, every one adores you, respects you and many people want you for a friend. Nice guys with no money will never win in life. The man who has the money makes the rule.

Money is important…you can give your children the best. The best education, the best health care, the best  of everything that money can buy. Without money, life could be very stressful. Financial burden is the number one cause of stress.

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Tags: for love or money, love and money

Are you a lesbian? If you believe you are, then how lesbian are you? It does not matter how you get it, the thing is, are you really sure you are a lesbian? Try to recollect your past. Did you become a lesbian by birth, by peer influence or the influence of your surroundings? If you did get it by birth, then you will know that deep inside you, there is something that is special and unique unto yourself. You are your own. However, if you did get it by peer influence, then maybe you have to think about where, what and who influenced you. Becoming a lesbian by peer influence can be destructive and could lead to a miserable life later on. Your environment plays a big role too in how you are being molded as a person. If the environment you live in consists of people who are into lesbian relationships then chances are you could become a lesbian too.

The lesbian story

A lesbian couple I knew of had been together for more than two decades. They have two daughters. One just recently got married to a soft butch, someone who dress and act in a masculine manner. The other started to show off some masculine acts and is now getting worse. Although she wears long hairs, she talks and dresses up like a guy.

So, what influenced these two girls?

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Tags: lesbian couple, Lesbian Relationship, soft butch

Can you spot the difference?

Unless you have experienced a lesbian relationship with these two types of women, you can never tell if loving one can be better off than the other.

Lesbian Relationship With a Gay Woman

Entering into a lesbian relationship with a woman who is known to be gay can give you a peace of mind. Why? Consider the following points:

• She is gay. Once gay will always be gay. In other words, there is an assurance that she will not be into guys. And if this is something that worries you a lot then you are pretty safe.
• She is more focused on the relationship. Gay women are known to be more focused on building a good lesbian relationship rather than wait and stick around for a while.
• She knows where you are coming from. A gay woman can relate to your feelings. She can easily understand you from within. Isn’t it not that you both feel the same in the first place?

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Tags: lesbian attraction, Lesbian Love, Lesbian Relationship, lesbian romance

The author apologizes for not being around for almost over five months. Life is getting too busy joggling work offline and a new found love. As  much as I would like to share lesbian stories and offer advise to lesbians around the world, that does not seem possible as of yet as my schedule will not allow me at this time.

I will be posting more often in the next few weeks as I have a lot of lesbians stories to share. Lesbian stories that will hopefully open the minds of those who frown upon lesbians.

Please bear with me my dear readers and thank you for your continued patronage. I wish you all a “MERRY MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A BLESSED NEW YEAR”.

Tags: lesbian stories