Here is a letter from one of our readers asking for the lesbian community’s support. A real and honest advise will surely let her weigh things over so she can move on with less pain in her heart. The tenor of the letter has not been changed, except the name, which we will keep private.

Jandi-

I need some perspective. I fell in love with a woman from work back in February. She’s 10 years older (I’m 39, she’s 49), and married (for 13 years), with a 5 year old son. She was with women prior to getting married, and her husband knew of her bisexuality prior to them marrying. She married a man, she says, because the lesbian drama and break-up was too much for her to handle: she wanted something stable and less emotional. Now she’s emotionally starved and she and her husband get along terribly; they fight constantly even in front of their son and guests, they have no emotional connection (her husband says he’s incapable of “doing the emotional connection thing,” and they haven’t had sex in more than 2 years. (The no sex thing is confirmed by her husband, by the way.)

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Childhood days are nice to remember especially when you had your first crush. This can even bring smiles on your face. At such a young age when you first realize you like girls, you tend to shy away from the girls you really like. But then when you realize that the admiration even grows stronger that you feel you are falling in love, you start asking yourself what is going on. You try to escape from your lesbian dream of having her by showing off the girly side of you even though you knew deep within you that you like girls even more.

The first childhood crush

A first childhood crush is hard to forget even as you grow older.  Memories of her face will keep reminding you of the old days. Though things change as you grow older, still memorable moments you shared with your first crush will keep you thinking of her. She will then forever remain in your heart.

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Opposites attract and so are lesbians. Lesbians attract women of all types sometimes even without them making any advances. But while it is seldom heard of, it does happen in some mysterious and surprising ways.

So, are you a straight woman falling for a lesbian? You are not alone. There are many women who are into the same situation. Women would rather not talk about it if they fall for their lesbian friend. These women would prefer keeping it a secret rather than endangering their reputation or fear of rejection.

Falling in love?

No matter how straight you are, there is a great possibility that you will fall for a lesbian. This happens when you are with lesbian friends. When you become close to one of your lesbian friends things can get tricky that the line between pal and passion becomes too cloudy.

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Lesbians feelings are unique. Unique in the sense that a lesbian’s feeling is towards a person of the same sex.

A lesbian’s love

When a lesbian loves a woman, she can go beyond borders. If left unchecked however a lesbian’s feeling can be destructive. It can sometimes cause health issues or problems. Problems arise when the feeling she wants shared with another woman fails. When love strikes, lesbians normally work what’s best for their women without minding their own. Oftentimes, lesbians who pass this route end up being destroyed from within. While lesbians are aware of this possible scenario, feelings in itself are uncontrollable. It is the lesbians heart dictating and, as human beings, their feelings are entitled to some  degree of respect.

Be that as it may, lesbians are, in the eyes of some people, abnormal and do not have the right to love women. Some would argue that women are only for men and men for women.

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When you enter into a lesbian relationship, have you ever thought of how to let go of it if things will not work out? Guess not. Because by all certainty, what you have in mind is to savor the time and company of the person you are in love with. It is the romance that excites you that matters most.

When lesbian love is gone

But what if the lesbian love is in turmoil and is at a stage beyond repair. It could die down. What if your lesbian relationship did not turn out right or you came to realize that the person you used to love is not the right one for you.

When the love was still blossoming you both took care of each other, look after each other, and showered each other with undying love, affection and devotion. You gave each other TLC, your world revolves around her and then one day you realize that she is no longer there. Could it happen?

Yes,  no matter how strong the lesbian love is. A case in point is when the woman you’re so deeply in love with turned out to be unfaithful to you.

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