Love. It is the most beautiful word in the dictionary. Everyone wants it and even chases it. Love is the most beautiful feeling one can have. It fills your life with everything even when you have nothing. But, what if the love you have turns into a nightmare?

Here is a story of a straight woman who was deeply in love with her long-time lesbian partner, but was betrayed and was devastated. They’ve been together for three years living the life every lesbian couple could imagine.

The betrayal

She trusted her lesbian partner. She caters to her needs and all that goes with the role of a housewife. She thinks that everything in their lesbian relationship was okay and that they will never separate ways. They promised to be together for the rest of their lives.

It turns out that her lesbian partner has a lesbian affair with another woman. She was very devastated. She never expected her lesbian partner to betray her after all that she did for her. The lesbian partner she thinks she will have for the rest of her life is having a lesbian affair with another woman.

Dear Jandi,

Breaking up with someone you love is the most painful and stressful thing that you can feel specially if your partner betrayed you. The person you thought you could trust and count on is no longer the person you believed them to be.

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Tags: Lesbian Affair, lesbian couple, lesbian partner, Lesbian Relationship, partner betrayal

Women are fragile. They are by nature delicate and tender.  Like glass, women can easily be broken or damaged when emotionally hit hard. A woman’s heart can easily break apart when it is badly hurt.

Do you like playing around with women?

Then, stop if you can.

It is a fact that when a lesbian shows she likes a woman, the woman would not only appreciate it but would most likely embrace it.

The Scene

A woman who is in her late 50’s has a huge crush on a lesbian in her early 40’s. Let’s hide their real names as “X” and “Y”. X being the lesbian and Y, the woman in her late 50’s. Both belong to a group composed of lesbian couples, straight women and single lesbians.

The two are both single and available. Being without partners, they were the subject of “who gets who” in the group. This situation made both X and Y very uncomfortable in each other’s company as when they are left alone there will be teasing and laughing by the rest of the group members. In response, X and Y made an arrangement to just make fun out of it.

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As with other kind of relationships, lesbian relationships do fail.

Let’s face it. No matter how hard we try to maintain a good and meaningful relationship towards our partners, it does sometimes fail.

Here are the probable culprits:

• Lack of trust. When there are negative events happening which go unprocessed they are most likely remembered and repeatedly rehearsed and turned over and over in a person’s mind. When this happens, trust erodes. In other words, with the continuous bombardment of negative events in the relationship these will create havoc and could possibly evolve the continuous erosion of trust and the increasing chance of betrayal.

Trust is an important part in any kind of relationship. When trust fails, relationship fails.

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Tags: lesbian relationships, relationships

Can you spot the difference?

Unless you have experienced a lesbian relationship with these two types of women, you can never tell if loving one can be better off than the other.

Lesbian Relationship With a Gay Woman

Entering into a lesbian relationship with a woman who is known to be gay can give you a peace of mind. Why? Consider the following points:

• She is gay. Once gay will always be gay. In other words, there is an assurance that she will not be into guys. And if this is something that worries you a lot then you are pretty safe.
• She is more focused on the relationship. Gay women are known to be more focused on building a good lesbian relationship rather than wait and stick around for a while.
• She knows where you are coming from. A gay woman can relate to your feelings. She can easily understand you from within. Isn’t it not that you both feel the same in the first place?

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Tags: lesbian attraction, Lesbian Love, Lesbian Relationship, lesbian romance

Have you found your one true love? How does it feel to be so in love with the person who changed your world?

True love. This is what everybody is looking for. Whatever your sex preference is, there will surely come a point in your life when you will crave for one special person you wish to have that you can call your own. You wish you can have someone you can spend the rest of your life with. Who says she does not need anyone?

Do you know that it is a nice feeling to have when you can say to your family and friends you belong to someone or that someone belongs to you?

It is. It’s that sense of belongingness that can make your world go round. When you are in love that is so true and that other person feels the same way towards you, it can mean everything to you.

So, how do you know when you have it?

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Tags: Lesbian Happiness, Lesbian Love, true love

Here is a letter from one of our readers asking for the lesbian community’s support. A real and honest advise will surely let her weigh things over so she can move on with less pain in her heart. The tenor of the letter has not been changed, except the name, which we will keep private.

Jandi-

I need some perspective. I fell in love with a woman from work back in February. She’s 10 years older (I’m 39, she’s 49), and married (for 13 years), with a 5 year old son. She was with women prior to getting married, and her husband knew of her bisexuality prior to them marrying. She married a man, she says, because the lesbian drama and break-up was too much for her to handle: she wanted something stable and less emotional. Now she’s emotionally starved and she and her husband get along terribly; they fight constantly even in front of their son and guests, they have no emotional connection (her husband says he’s incapable of “doing the emotional connection thing,” and they haven’t had sex in more than 2 years. (The no sex thing is confirmed by her husband, by the way.)

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Tags: Lesbian Love, Lesbian Relationship