She swept you off your feet. She gave you love and affection. She gave you first class attention and gave you a sense of direction. You strongly feel like you’ll never love anyone anymore.

Then things changed. Her love change. The tender loving care is gone. She ignores you. Then one day she tells you someone else swept her heart away and then from the look upon her face you know it’s true. Hearts change, feelings change. Then your relationship with your lesbian lover change. Face it and accept it!

It hurts. For a start, yes! As you are betrayed. The pain will go deep inside you. And then you start to think how you are supposed to live without her now that you’ve loved her for so long. You asked yourself how you can carry on when all that you’ve living for is gone.

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Are you separated by distance with the woman you truly love? Is the pain of wanting her make you think if you can hold on to it despite the distance? Will you be able to make the lesbian long distance relationship last? Is the distance taking your heart apart? These are very common questions among lesbians who are into this kind of long distance lesbian relationship.

So, can a long distance lesbian relationship last?

Yes and no. It can last if both woman in love are committed to each other and there is a willingness to sacrifice for each other. Without commitment and sacrifice it is doomed to fail.

Surviving a long distance lesbian relationship is no easy task.  To make it really work lies in the hands of two people in love. There is no mountain you cannot cross unless there is a strong determination on both parties to make the lesbian relationship work.

A lesbian truly in love with someone who lives miles and miles away should be committed and be willing to make some sacrifices. Maintaining a long distance lesbian relationship can be daunting. It is expensive –  physically, emotionally and financially. However, if both are committed and are willing to sacrifice for each other, a long distance lesbian relationship will be no long distance relationship at all.

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How to seduce a straight woman is the most common question faced by lesbians who fall in love and want to build a relationship with a straight woman. The desire to seduce a straight woman should come natural and done in a more subtle way. If the attraction is very strong, the lesbian love can become irresistible. One can hardly explain its meaning whenever it strikes a lonely heart. It is hard to resist and hard to control if the dictates of the heart is pulling you apart.

Most if not all lesbians will do everything in their power  just to get the woman of their dreams. But, unlike men, lesbians strategies are more subtle.

How to seduce a straight woman?

Below are some tips that are proven helpful in seducing a straight woman. However, be sure to befriend the straight woman first. You can do so by striking a conversation. For example, while you are both on board a train or waiting for a bus or train. The trip or the waiting time could end up both of you exchanging emails or phone numbers. The rest will be history and then you can start the following:

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Are you in love or were you in love? Love is great when all else are perfect. But what if your heart is broken? How are you going to get rid of the pain?

Mending a broken heart takes time. It takes time and even years to recoup the damage. It takes determination and perseverance to get rid of the baggage that makes one’s life miserable. Moving on is the only right thing to do.

Here are some tips that may help you heal your wounded heart:

1. Relocate. It’s okay to stay in the same place where all the memories are. But can you move on with that? Staying in the same place with all its twin memories is pretty hard. Do you want to wake up each morning in the same bed? Maybe you can replace the bed, but what about the room? Memories are memories whether good or bad. It will always stay no matter what – in the same place. Relocating to some place else will give you room to breath. Fresh sorroundings, new neighbourhood and new friends are all perfect for a new you.

2. Take a vacation. Sometimes taking a nice vacation is helpful to not think about what happened. A week in the beach or a cruise, or perhaps a world tour if you can afford it. Give yourself that luxury you deserve. After all, it’s all about you.

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The economic crisis is now global. It spreads like a contagious disease. On TV or paper, you’ll hear and read stories of people whose families have been shattered or relationship that has gone sour.

When faced with a difficult financial situation because of lose of job, discuss it with family members and lay out strategies to counter its effects.

Here are survival tips to keep your relationship stay strong despite the financial crisis:

1. Sit down and talk. Communication is vital to every relationship. Discuss about alternatives of income.

2. Have faith. By all means pray. It works!

3. Trust in your leaders. Government leaders are there to work something for the good of all people. For sure, they’re working real hard to get people like you out of this mess.

4. Stay healthy. Losing a job means losing your health insurance. Keep yourself fit by doing physical or mental exercise. It helps release all the stress.

5. Keep the love alive. Keeping your love alive will not only make you feel younger but it makes your love stronger.

6. Be positive. Stay positive despite the negative thoughts you have in mind. Force yourself to think that everything will be okay and that you will go through all what you’ve been through right now.

6. Life is more precious than money. Keep in mind that money is not everything.

The most important thing is not to give up on each other when things get tough.

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