If someone has a crush on you, would you go for it?

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Are you good looking that you could attract as many people as you could imagine?

Really? Did someone got a crush on you? Sometimes this happens without you knowing it. Either you are too good looking in the eyes of the other person or you have something special that really attracted her to you — something that you or even she cannot explain. And it feels really good, isn’t it? Though flattering, it feels good to know that someone is attracted to you or has a crush on you because it could mean you have something special you are not even aware of.

The Confession

You were both introduced and become friends. Fast forward, the two of you became close. Then a friend told you your newly found friend has a crush on you and it became so obvious from the way she looks at you that indeed she has a crush on you, what would you do? Would you just swim into the deep blue sea?

Think a Million Times

Think before you leap or you could drown yourself into the wrong path. Play safe to protect yourself — emotionally. Not only for yourself, but the people who could be involved.

Here are some helpful tips:

Tip #1:

If you have a girlfriend, STOP and FORGET about it.

The reasons is simple. You have a girlfriend and that means you are no longer available. Otherwise, if you want to make yourself available despite having a girlfriend then you are just playing around with women, which could later on haunt you back later in years. If you really love your girlfriend then you should be very careful with her heart. Seal you heart only for her as women, in general, are too fragile when it comes to matters of the heart.

Tip #2:

If you are loveless — meaning you are not into a relationship then think of her as a prospect for the time being.

Here are the reasons why you should do this:

a. You really don’t know her yet. Isn’t it that you knew her only just a few weeks back? Don’t let yourself drown into desperation to have a girlfriend. Take her, for now, as a potential partner. It is best to get to know her first before you let your heart pour out into something uncertain. You will know when you have found one true love as your friendship grows into something deeper and really special. There is a lot to learn from each other out of that friendship. By learning comes the caring and anything that could go in between.

b. She may just be playing around. Don’t be fooled when someone says she has a crush on you. It is flattering, yes. But, it is better to be safe than feel sorry.

c. What she feels may just be temporary. It could be that what she feels towards you is just a temporary sort of attraction. A feeling of wanting that person all the time but fades with time.

First and foremost, ask yourself if she is right for you.

Tip #3:

Go for it if you don’t have a girlfriend and if you are also attracted to her.

You will feel it when the feelings are mutual. If the feeling is mutual then why wait too long when the timing is right?

Maybe you were just born with luck that you get attracted to someone who also happens to get attracted to you. This seldom happens to people. Some would even spend thousands to find the right partner for them.

“Strike while the iron is hot.” Why not let your feelings go with the flow and see where this may both led you. It is better to love and be loved than being not in love and be loved at all. Life is too short to not give it a try.

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