As women, we don’t like to think and hear stories about women dating women, unless you are a lesbian who gets excited about women dating women. Women dating women stories are not like stories about men dating women as these stories are mostly disliked or frowned upon. But, don’t you know that, as a woman, you may already have attracted a lesbian? She may already be keeping an eye on you or she may already be crazy about you. In fact, this could very well happen without you knowing it.
So, how will you know if a lesbian likes you?
Here are tell-tale signs that a lesbian likes you:
1. The way she looks at you. The way a lesbian looks at a woman she likes is different from the way she looks at a woman she doesn’t like or just admire. A lesbian who admires a woman glance only once in a while, but a lesbian who is attracted to a woman can’t seem to stop staring at her.
Is there a woman that kept staring at you? Can’t she not take off her eyes on you? Chances are she may be a lesbian and is attracted to you. Does she glances at you more often? She may just have admired you, but if she looks at you longer than she would normally do then she may be a lesbian and is attracted to you. If you look at her does she look at you straight in the eye?
2. The way she talks to you. Does she tells you she likes you or enjoys spending time with you?
3. The way she treats you. Does she treats you very nicely like opening the door for you or treats you with all the good stuff. Perhaps invite you out for dinner more often and she footing the bill all the time?
4. The way she shows concern over you. When you are sad or lonely, does she offer her time for you.
5. When she talks to you more often than she used to. Does she calls you more often or talk to you even if you’re done talking about things? Has she asked to see you again? If a lesbian is interested in you, she will most likely contact you more than she used to and see you as much as possible.
6. Gets jealous. Does she seemed to be annoyed when you have other obligations or want to spend time with another friend?
The above are just tell-tale signs that a lesbian likes you. You maybe wrong or you could be right. But rather than wasting your time and energy worrying, making assumptions and doubting them which can make yourself miserable why not shot a simple question which could settle the issue once and for all. This may be a scary proposition and you may not be brave enough to ask but you can try other subtle ways.
For example, you could ask her out for a coffee where you will get the chance to get to know her. While talking, you can slip a casual reference to a sexual orientation or maybe talk a little bit about lesbian relationships in general. Doing this could send signal that you may also be a lesbian, however it could give you a clue by gauging the way she looks at you, the way she talks to you, and all that tell-tale signs that she likes you.
Life is full of risks and if one never tries one never lives. Shot her a question right at her face if you don’t want to waste so much time and effort. Say it! Like…..do you like me? Like as in ….???