Why lesbians fall in love with women rather than with men?
Are you a lesbian? Do you know the reason why you prefer to be romantically linked with a woman rather than with a man? As a lesbian, do you have the right to love a woman? If you know or you do not know the answer, share your thoughts so every lesbian can learn from each other.
Lesbians in General
Generally, lesbians prefer to be romantically linked with a woman rather than with a man. Lesbians will most likely envy men rather than being romantically linked with them.
The Exception
Unless the lesbian is a bi-sexual woman, she may not want to be with a man.
Being a lesbian is confusing in itself
Being a lesbian is confusing in itself. Some of these confusions center on their being and why they were born the way they are. Most likely questions that will crop up a lesbian’s mind are why on earth I was born this way, why am I attracted to women instead of men and what is in me that made me a lesbian? These are questions that perhaps science still have to uncover.
Lesbians only love women
A lesbian will definitely prefer to be with another woman rather than with a man. It is a feeling that is not understandable even to a lesbian’s standpoint. It is a feeling inside her that is wanting to be with another woman rather than with a man. It is that craving that drives her to be with another woman. The craving can be in the form of strong physical attraction towards a woman. If the woman who appears before her is sexy and attractive the lesbian will most likely be attracted to her. While intelligence and kindness are added attractions, physical appearance is a strong factor that are most sought after by lesbians. Sometimes the scent of a woman can also attract a lesbian.
Lesbians are like men
Indeed, like men, lesbians who will find beautiful women around the block will more likely be crazy about how to get who. Like men, lesbians will try to befriend the woman until she gets to know the person well.
What makes a lesbian a lesbian
But, what really makes a lesbian a lesbian? This question is hard to answer unless you are a lesbian yourself. If you have experienced falling in love with another woman then and only then will you ever know what makes a lesbian a lesbian. That being said, a lesbian is considerably human with a heart of her own. While it is confusing as to why lesbians fall for a woman, it is likewise confusing why lesbians are made lesbians.
The heart of a lesbian is no different from other human being’s heart. However, a lesbian’s heart is unique in itself as it can only afford to love a woman.
Perhaps it is right to say that a woman who is currently in love and is in a relationship with a lesbian is lucky as only a lesbian knows what a woman wants. A woman who says otherwise has yet to find the right lesbian as lesbian relationships are just like a man-woman relationship.
So, what would you do if a lesbian likes you? Run and hide? If you are a woman and you have found true love in a lesbian, congratulations!
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When you are young, what most girls want is attention. Doesn’t really matter who, just any attention, to know they are pretty etc. This adds up on the confusion when you don’t really know what your sexual orientation is. But I can say this; if you really are lesbian, then there will always be a certain “wrongness” tugging at you whenever you turn to a guy, you can tolerate them but never be truly happy until you find a woman’s arms.
I believe many women who are really lesbians live in a relationship with men – they may even have children – but there comes a point when that yearning and longing after something else can no longer be ignored, when you truly fall in love and realise that you never loved the man you were living with. There is no such thing as “turning lesbian”. If you’re lesbian you always were.
I don’t really believe in bi-sexuality, I believe in young people experimenting and seeking attention, but once you mature you usually find yourself on one side or another. Society doesn’t really help us out here, but the most important thing for a young lesbian girl is this lesson: never, ever, ever go into a relationship with a guy just because you feel lonely or want attention. It won’t last. It will only turn to misery and the day you meet the woman you fall head over heels for you’ll have a very complicated path out of the previous relationship before you. From my experience a guy will never get over the fact that he got dumped in favor of a woman.
Lastly I want to give all you lesbians out there a big, big, hug and cheers for those being brave enough to be open about what they feel. And for those who found true love (as I did) I wish you a long, happy life together!
after lovingand caring for a man why does a straight woman turn gay?
@ellyn — Good question. Perhaps you were already gay then. You just did not realize it until after having a loving and caring relationship with a man. The truth of the matter is that there are numerous straight married women who later realize they prefer to be with women instead of men. These are women who are happy with their marriages yet find themselves longing for something more that they cannot find in their men.