There are lesbians who have had experience being in a relationship with a married woman. While this may not sound right anymore, there are those who are willing to fight for their feelings. They will try to hide the relationship or pretend to be just friends. Check out in KISS ME of what happened to two step-sisters who fall in love creating turmoil and heartbreak for everyone involved.
So, why are these married women attracted to lesbians anyway? It can come to only one thing. Only a woman knows what a woman wants.
Think that this kind of relationship will last? You are wrong. Majority of lesbian relationships with married women are short lived. You can hardly find a lesbian relationship with a married woman survive for the long haul. If there is any, then it’s one in a million.
The reason? First and foremost is, if given a choice, the married woman will definitely choose family before lesbian affair. She will, of course, protect her integrity first and foremost and that of her family, especially if there are children involved. It is all the more true if the community is small and everybody knows everybody. News of the affair can spread very easily like wildfire and end up the affair so quickly.
If you or someone you know is into this kind of mess, here is one tip to share. Back off! It is better to be hurt than feel sorry. Back off while you are still in the early stage of the relationship. Be aware that the woman is married and that you don’t have the right to spoil or ruin it. If you let the feelings go a long way, you might have a hard time finding yourself again.
If you want to overcome this feeling, check out this book that will help enlighten yourself. This is a good resource to help you overcome what you’ve been dealing with: Married Women Who Love Women: Second Edition. This book is about women in heterosexual marriages who discover or come to terms with their lesbianism or bisexuality. It answers questions such as how women make this discovery, what they do once they realize their same-gender sexuality, how family and friends deal with the situation, and what happens to marriages and families. Grab a copy and it will definitely help you come to terms with yourself.