Comments on: Lesbian Affair With A Married Woman http://www.y-woo.com/loving-a-married-woman-as-a-lesbian/ Simple solutions for complex lesbian problems Sat, 04 Feb 2012 20:14:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Angel http://www.y-woo.com/loving-a-married-woman-as-a-lesbian/comment-page-2/#comment-1009 Angel Sun, 18 Dec 2011 01:39:50 +0000 http://www.y-woo.com/?p=198#comment-1009 If a bisexual woman loves a man and a woman, she will always pick the man. Society is set up in a manner that rewards heterosexual relationships (allowing marriage, less insurance premiums,etc) while stigmatizing lesbian and gay relationships. She'll always picks safety and ,even in 2011, it's still not safe to be a lesbian in most towns. If a bisexual woman loves a man and a woman, she will always pick the man. Society is set up in a manner that rewards heterosexual relationships (allowing marriage, less insurance premiums,etc) while stigmatizing lesbian and gay relationships. She’ll always picks safety and ,even in 2011, it’s still not safe to be a lesbian in most towns.

]]> By: Candace http://www.y-woo.com/loving-a-married-woman-as-a-lesbian/comment-page-2/#comment-999 Candace Sat, 03 Dec 2011 04:06:19 +0000 http://www.y-woo.com/?p=198#comment-999 @ heartbroke stop the bullshit and just end this relationship because it isn't a REAL RELATIONSHIP. @ heartbroke stop the bullshit and just end this relationship because it isn’t a REAL RELATIONSHIP.

]]> By: jandi http://www.y-woo.com/loving-a-married-woman-as-a-lesbian/comment-page-2/#comment-849 jandi Tue, 11 Oct 2011 16:43:30 +0000 http://www.y-woo.com/?p=198#comment-849 @ heartbroke - While it is nice to love and be loved, choose wisely. Being in a relationship with a married woman is not that simple --- you will always be at the losing end. Experience would tell you that it is not worth another risk. It is a fact of life that the trust of a married woman will always be to her husband and kids. While there are always an exception, the fact is that the loyalty of these married women will always be to her family especially if there are kids involved. Be on the safe side always. Go for single women. With or without kids is fine. Since you are not ready to take this married woman into your home, why not stay away from her for now? Check your heart meter. Is she worth another risk after an ugly divorce? If not, move on... there are single and available women out there who are looking for serious relationship with a very responsible person. Just look around...but don't jump into any lesbian relationship right away if you are not emotionally prepared. Hope this helps...Good luck! @ heartbroke – While it is nice to love and be loved, choose wisely. Being in a relationship with a married woman is not that simple — you will always be at the losing end. Experience would tell you that it is not worth another risk. It is a fact of life that the trust of a married woman will always be to her husband and kids. While there are always an exception, the fact is that the loyalty of these married women will always be to her family especially if there are kids involved.

Be on the safe side always. Go for single women. With or without kids is fine. Since you are not ready to take this married woman into your home, why not stay away from her for now? Check your heart meter. Is she worth another risk after an ugly divorce? If not, move on… there are single and available women out there who are looking for serious relationship with a very responsible person. Just look around…but don’t jump into any lesbian relationship right away if you are not emotionally prepared. Hope this helps…Good luck!

]]> By: heartbroke http://www.y-woo.com/loving-a-married-woman-as-a-lesbian/comment-page-2/#comment-848 heartbroke Thu, 06 Oct 2011 06:24:55 +0000 http://www.y-woo.com/?p=198#comment-848 my situation: i am dating a married woman. we have been together for over 9 months now. her husband has known about our relationship the entire time, encouraging her to explore her sexuality with another woman. he never expected us (all 3) to be together sexually. just an understanding guy. over the course of time - my girlfriend has come out saying that she is gay. her and her husband no longer have sex, but they still live together. they have 2 kids and since they are really good friends - they insist on 'doing what's right for their kids' - which means keeping her (my girlfriend) in the home so that she can take care of the kids while he is at work. they both insist that they are still living together, and married, for the sake of the kids... but i feel like he is trying to keep her anyway he can - even if it means that they are both miserable. my girlfriend tells me that she would leave him in a heartbeat if they didn't have kids. they've asked me to move in w them - but i feel like this is me compromising my real needs... i love the kids and realize this is a difficult situation... how long should i wait to see if she will move out of the house? she says she would move in with me, but i don't think i am ready for that - because i just went through an ugly divorce this past year (i was married to a woman, very abusive relationship) - im having trust issues. love my girlfriend deeply. even like her husband. what do i do? my situation: i am dating a married woman. we have been together for over 9 months now. her husband has known about our relationship the entire time, encouraging her to explore her sexuality with another woman. he never expected us (all 3) to be together sexually. just an understanding guy. over the course of time – my girlfriend has come out saying that she is gay. her and her husband no longer have sex, but they still live together. they have 2 kids and since they are really good friends – they insist on ‘doing what’s right for their kids’ – which means keeping her (my girlfriend) in the home so that she can take care of the kids while he is at work. they both insist that they are still living together, and married, for the sake of the kids… but i feel like he is trying to keep her anyway he can – even if it means that they are both miserable. my girlfriend tells me that she would leave him in a heartbeat if they didn’t have kids. they’ve asked me to move in w them – but i feel like this is me compromising my real needs… i love the kids and realize this is a difficult situation… how long should i wait to see if she will move out of the house? she says she would move in with me, but i don’t think i am ready for that – because i just went through an ugly divorce this past year (i was married to a woman, very abusive relationship) – im having trust issues. love my girlfriend deeply. even like her husband. what do i do?

]]> By: jandi http://www.y-woo.com/loving-a-married-woman-as-a-lesbian/comment-page-2/#comment-203 jandi Wed, 18 Aug 2010 01:24:20 +0000 http://www.y-woo.com/?p=198#comment-203 @Mindy -- You gotta pick one, but choose wisely. Meaning choose the one closest to your heart. Having a relationship takes chemistry. When there is no spark at all, you are just like playing a fire. It's a major decision you have to make, but keep in mind do what is right for you and the woman you really love. Ask yourself...who is right for me? If you can't handle one relationship, why settle for two. Guess that is too much for you to take care of. @Mindy — You gotta pick one, but choose wisely. Meaning choose the one closest to your heart. Having a relationship takes chemistry. When there is no spark at all, you are just like playing a fire. It’s a major decision you have to make, but keep in mind do what is right for you and the woman you really love. Ask yourself…who is right for me? If you can’t handle one relationship, why settle for two. Guess that is too much for you to take care of.

]]> By: Mindy http://www.y-woo.com/loving-a-married-woman-as-a-lesbian/comment-page-1/#comment-198 Mindy Fri, 13 Aug 2010 11:17:34 +0000 http://www.y-woo.com/?p=198#comment-198 Hello I have a gf but one of my friends that I found out she wasnt really my friend told me she wanted a brake up. a long time later I got another gf. then I learned that my friend lied and my old gf didnt want a brake up, and I told her I didnt want one. My friend was tryin to brake us up! I found out my friend *aka I will just call her puma* liked me. I went back with my old gf, but now im with two gfs! Im worried and I dont want to mess up my allready messed up love life. what do I do??? DX Hello I have a gf but one of my friends that I found out she wasnt really my friend told me she wanted a brake up. a long time later I got another gf. then I learned that my friend lied and my old gf didnt want a brake up, and I told her I didnt want one. My friend was tryin to brake us up! I found out my friend *aka I will just call her puma* liked me. I went back with my old gf, but now im with two gfs! Im worried and I dont want to mess up my allready messed up love life. what do I do??? DX

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