Married Woman With Lesbian Affair
Many married women will probably admit that they have had lesbian affairs in their lives. While these married women are supposed to commit to their marriage vows, some are still attracted to lesbians.
Usually women who have had lesbian affairs hide it from their husbands, while others do not when husbands are comfortable with the set-up.
So, what makes a married woman fall for a lesbian? This is the type of question hovering around people’s minds. Isn’t it that a woman is supposed to be with a man, but how come women still find lesbians attractive or better than men?
The reason lies on whether or not the married woman is happy with her current relationship. A woman who is already married and still finds another woman attractive or falls for a lesbian is someone who is actually not happy with her married life. She may be happy, in some other way, like having a family she can call her own but, deep down inside, she is longing for something that only a woman can give.
Women are known to be very intimate. That being said, a woman would tend to look for intimacy with another woman if she cannot find it in her man — an intimacy that she can only find in a woman. Most people are not created equal. The same holds true for these types of women.
Indeed, only a woman knows what a woman really wants. Every woman has a different need and want, but it is something intense if a woman finds a lesbian more attractive than her man. It’s all about intimacy that only women know, which may come in different forms. It may be sexual or non-sexual.
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my parner had a good girl friend for 10 years and when i met her and fell in love, we move away to another state with her 9 year old daugther to start a new life. for 4 years it was like a honeymoon and it was all so pervice.then we desided to go back home to get marry and within 2 weeks her girl friend had started wanting her to spend all her time with her, and she started to become very cold with me. her friend was very over powering and controling and it seem like, when her friend had got my parner back, she made her move. i think it was a one off time and i fronted them, they both went into denilel. two weeks later the friend ended the friendship and now they hate each other and my parner stop talking to myself, her 4 children, her perents and all her friends. she went from being that happy person, to seeing no one. is this guilt and shame she holding in side her because i found out or the fact that she allow herself to be con and used.
Dave,
Your partner, I believe, is confused right now. People sometimes get confused with so many things. It is more confusing when a person has kids to take care of. Give her some space for the time being. However, show her you still care in some ways.
Its hard to confront her on that matter while Doing things with woman. I know I can’t change her for what she is but not aDmitiing it at least she can tell me that?
Carlos,
Don’t push your woman too hard in admitting her mistake. This will alienate more her feelings towards you. Instead, make her feel loved like you have never loved before. When you do that and she will feel the love that she is looking for, it will just be a matter of time that she will talk it out with you. Be intimate with her if you haven’t done that. Women wants their men to be intimate with them and be more loving, caring and attentive to their needs and wants. Give her your full attention and surely you’ll have her back.
I have been married to my husband for 2 yrs and with him for 10. He is in Jail! I moved west coast and met a woman who I am very intimate with going on a year. My husband doesn’t know and I am starting to feel guilty because we talk about everything. Meanwhile, I am in love with this woman who is a lesbian and is single. The feelings are mutual for both parties and we cry about it. I have been seeing my future with this woman. I am resenting my husbands incarceration. But can not and will not break off our attachment until my husband comes home. But the problem is I still love him but she fulfills me. I do not know what to do? I am feeling jealousy, angry and depressed. When we are together I am complete. But I’m Married! What can I do? I need her and him in my life, but I feel I can let him go and totally go against the grain of my heterosexuality! Help!!!
Carmel,
Sometimes we have to make major life-changing decisions. You can reach a better decision by knowing that many major decisions do turn out wrong. If you are not content with where you are right now, you will not be content with where you are going. It is a mistake to think that changing our circumstances alone will make us happy or content b/c often we cling to some selfish desires/ambitions. The process is to write down your decision and write out a “purpose statement” which precisely explains why you are considering the decision then submit your “purpose statement” to a series of questions like what are you trying to accomplish, your objective and desired result, your expectations and why, whether or not this decision fit in with your conscience. Lastly, count the cost of making the wrong decision.