Coming out as a lesbian is not an easy thing to do. It comes with a lot of “what ifs”, which can come in so many ways depending on your personal circumstance.

What if your family will disown you?
What if you will be fired from work if you come out of the closet?
What if…

These are examples of situations that could happen when you come out in the open. But again coming out depends on ones personal circumstance.

Coming out as a lesbian may not be hard for one whose family is very accepting and understanding or to a lesbian whose personal demeanor seems so obvious that it does not require telling anyone to know what she is. Or one of the family member is gay and is already out.

Be that as it may, coming out is what every lesbian aspire for as coming out gives us freedom and real happiness to be who we are. It gives us inner peace and a sense of direction.

So, what is your coming out story? Share it to get some kind of emotional relief.

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Are you a lesbian? If you believe you are, then how lesbian are you? It does not matter how you get it, the thing is, are you really sure you are a lesbian? Try to recollect your past. Did you become a lesbian by birth, by peer influence or the influence of your surroundings? If you did get it by birth, then you will know that deep inside you, there is something that is special and unique unto yourself. You are your own. However, if you did get it by peer influence, then maybe you have to think about where, what and who influenced you. Becoming a lesbian by peer influence can be destructive and could lead to a miserable life later on. Your environment plays a big role too in how you are being molded as a person. If the environment you live in consists of people who are into lesbian relationships then chances are you could become a lesbian too.

The lesbian story

A lesbian couple I knew of had been together for more than two decades. They have two daughters. One just recently got married to a soft butch, someone who dress and act in a masculine manner. The other started to show off some masculine acts and is now getting worse. Although she wears long hairs, she talks and dresses up like a guy.

So, what influenced these two girls?

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Tags: lesbian couple, Lesbian Relationship, soft butch

Have you noticed anything around you? Perhaps among your friends and neighbors? What goes in your mind whenever you see a woman being in a relationship with a lesbian?

One question that could pop up in one’s mind would be — why on earth are these women more interested in having a relationship with a lesbian rather than with a man?

You would never believe what these women would say. And, these are women who are currently in a lesbian relationship.

The reasons they fall in love with these lesbians?

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Tags: Lesbian Love, lesbian lovers, Lesbian Relationship

Can you spot the difference?

Unless you have experienced a lesbian relationship with these two types of women, you can never tell if loving one can be better off than the other.

Lesbian Relationship With a Gay Woman

Entering into a lesbian relationship with a woman who is known to be gay can give you a peace of mind. Why? Consider the following points:

• She is gay. Once gay will always be gay. In other words, there is an assurance that she will not be into guys. And if this is something that worries you a lot then you are pretty safe.
• She is more focused on the relationship. Gay women are known to be more focused on building a good lesbian relationship rather than wait and stick around for a while.
• She knows where you are coming from. A gay woman can relate to your feelings. She can easily understand you from within. Isn’t it not that you both feel the same in the first place?

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Tags: lesbian attraction, Lesbian Love, Lesbian Relationship, lesbian romance

Have you found your one true love? How does it feel to be so in love with the person who changed your world?

True love. This is what everybody is looking for. Whatever your sex preference is, there will surely come a point in your life when you will crave for one special person you wish to have that you can call your own. You wish you can have someone you can spend the rest of your life with. Who says she does not need anyone?

Do you know that it is a nice feeling to have when you can say to your family and friends you belong to someone or that someone belongs to you?

It is. It’s that sense of belongingness that can make your world go round. When you are in love that is so true and that other person feels the same way towards you, it can mean everything to you.

So, how do you know when you have it?

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Tags: Lesbian Happiness, Lesbian Love, true love

The author apologizes for not being around for almost over five months. Life is getting too busy joggling work offline and a new found love. As  much as I would like to share lesbian stories and offer advise to lesbians around the world, that does not seem possible as of yet as my schedule will not allow me at this time.

I will be posting more often in the next few weeks as I have a lot of lesbians stories to share. Lesbian stories that will hopefully open the minds of those who frown upon lesbians.

Please bear with me my dear readers and thank you for your continued patronage. I wish you all a “MERRY MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A BLESSED NEW YEAR”.

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