You step into marriage, bright-eyed and optimistic, but flat-out unprepared. Nevertheless, you assumed that your marriage will be a rousing success. Then things changed. You wish someone had told you before marriage that this is what it is.
You started to realize that the person you are marrying was hard to live with and the reason you are so unaware of it is because you have lived by yourself for most of your single life. You get frustrated and you fight constantly with no end in sight.
So, how can you save your marriage when you fight all the time even on pretty simple things? You admit you love him, but can you continue to get along with each other when he isn’t just the same person anymore?
In real life, your fairy tale love story ends up feeling more like a Wes Craven horror flick where you are the chick who keeps falling down and screaming for life. Let’s face it, marriage is not for the faint of heart. You want to believe your love for each other will pull through. Yes, it does sometimes, but the ride is not always pretty.
Marriage takes work and work means really hard work and being patient and willing to accommodate all the annoying habits he possess. If only it were that easy, but it is not in reality.
There are times when you can manage to stay focused and on topic, but heated arguments will sometimes refuse to die down even at bedtime. The whole kiss-and-make-up thing just to keep the peace in place will sometimes eat you inside and if not remedied right away may explode like a bomb. You can wait and hold on to yourself for a while to let the emotions settle down but it could also mean reopening the fight the next day.
If your spouse has dropped the “divorce” bombshell and does not wish to work on saving your marriage then maybe it is time for you to find a way to save it. There is a way to saving your marriage if the love is still there.
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