Can you spot the difference?

Unless you have experienced a lesbian relationship with these two types of women, you can never tell if loving one can be better off than the other.

Lesbian Relationship With a Gay Woman

Entering into a lesbian relationship with a woman who is known to be gay can give you a peace of mind. Why? Consider the following points:

• She is gay. Once gay will always be gay. In other words, there is an assurance that she will not be into guys. And if this is something that worries you a lot then you are pretty safe.
• She is more focused on the relationship. Gay women are known to be more focused on building a good lesbian relationship rather than wait and stick around for a while.
• She knows where you are coming from. A gay woman can relate to your feelings. She can easily understand you from within. Isn’t it not that you both feel the same in the first place?

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Have you ever been strongly attracted to a woman? Chances are you are a lesbian. But, how do you know exactly if the woman you are strongly attracted to is also attracted to you?

Most lesbians will admit there is no easy answer.

Unless the woman you are strongly attracted to will boldly show signs that she is also interested in you, then there is no way you can tell that she also likes you.

A lesbian experience

I have my share of story to share.

When I was in Grade school, I was strongly attracted to a girl in my class. We became friends that there are times I end up sending her to her house after school. It is my own special way of showing to the girl that I really care about her. We became really close, but she never showed any indication that she is also attracted to me. I was however sure she knows that I am attracted to her, which is pretty obvious from my actions, but I cannot really tell if she is also attracted to me. She never showed any sign at all. Until one day, she visited me at my house, which is very surprising. Then we lost touch after graduation.

That was 30 plus years ago.

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Childhood days are nice to remember especially when you had your first crush. This can even bring smiles on your face. At such a young age when you first realize you like girls, you tend to shy away from the girls you really like. But then when you realize that the admiration even grows stronger that you feel you are falling in love, you start asking yourself what is going on. You try to escape from your lesbian dream of having her by showing off the girly side of you even though you knew deep within you that you like girls even more.

The first childhood crush

A first childhood crush is hard to forget even as you grow older.  Memories of her face will keep reminding you of the old days. Though things change as you grow older, still memorable moments you shared with your first crush will keep you thinking of her. She will then forever remain in your heart.

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Women! Are we all slightly lesbians?

This was the question raised by a man who thinks that women, in general, who seem attracted to other women usually have sexual feelings towards them or are slightly lesbians. Perhaps this guy has a dating problem or problem going after the woman he is interested in. It could also be that the woman he is interested in may not be interested in him but, instead, interested in another woman — a scenario that can be a bit confusing to the guy. But, how do you exactly gauge a woman as to whether or not she is a lesbian? Or slightly lesbian?

The answer depends largely on the woman’s perspective. From a straight woman’s perspective, she can definitely say that she does not feel any sexual feelings towards other women at all. Or she can openly say, “the woman” is “very attractive” but it doesn’t mean she is a lesbian. To a straight woman, showing signs of attraction to another woman is simply noticing another woman’s traits which she doesn’t have that she wants for herself to catch a man. It can also be that she is merely wanting to be like the woman she admired as “very attractive,” but not necessarily liking her. These women could just be wishing that, what beautiful things they see in other women, they could somehow have for themselves.

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Women are created equal, but there are unique qualities of a woman, physical or not, that can draw a lesbian’s attention.

So, what exactly is in a woman that attracts lesbians?

Taste of a Lesbian

A lesbian’s taste on women is no different from the taste of men. Like men, lesbians have different tastes. Generally, lesbians like women of all types, but there are qualities of a woman that may draw a lesbian’s attention or can glue a lesbian’s eyes.

There are those drawn by the personality of a woman, while others are attracted by the physical appearance of a woman. There are also women who can easily catch the eyes of a lesbian like the ones with beautiful face, nice hair, butt, legs, etc. Other lesbians are attracted to dark haired, brown-eyed feminine type of woman, while others like blue-eyed, blonde-haired athletic woman.

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While it is very unlikely for a straight woman to be attracted to a lesbian, it does happen in some mysterious ways. Straight women usually frown upon lesbian encounters and are more likely seen around dating men rather than women. However, there is a recent evolution taking place of formerly straight women now finding themselves dating other women. A rise in married women with lesbian affair is quite alarming that it became an episode of the popular “Oprah Winfrey Show” called “Wives Who Confess They are Gay.”

Straight Woman Attracted to a Lesbian

A straight woman who finds herself attracted to a lesbian in a romantic way will find her feelings very strange. Strange indeed that she will start questioning her own identity and try to find answers by tracing back her roots.  Others will test the waters to convince themselves who they truly are.

Straight Woman in Love With a Lesbian

Falling in love with a lesbian for the first time may be hard to accept but sometimes the feeling can be overpowered by the burning desire to be around the lesbian. There is the urge or the longing to hear the lesbian’s voice then the crave for intimacy. This usually happens when the connection is strong enough that a right thinking can be overtaken by the desire to be with the other person.

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