While it is very unlikely for a straight woman to be attracted to a lesbian, it does happen in some mysterious ways. Straight women usually frown upon lesbian encounters and are more likely seen around dating men rather than women. However, there is a recent evolution taking place of formerly straight women now finding themselves dating other women. A rise in married women with lesbian affair is quite alarming that it became an episode of the popular “Oprah Winfrey Show” called “Wives Who Confess They are Gay.”

Straight Woman Attracted to a Lesbian

A straight woman who finds herself attracted to a lesbian in a romantic way will find her feelings very strange. Strange indeed that she will start questioning her own identity and try to find answers by tracing back her roots.  Others will test the waters to convince themselves who they truly are.

Straight Woman in Love With a Lesbian

Falling in love with a lesbian for the first time may be hard to accept but sometimes the feeling can be overpowered by the burning desire to be around the lesbian. There is the urge or the longing to hear the lesbian’s voice then the crave for intimacy. This usually happens when the connection is strong enough that a right thinking can be overtaken by the desire to be with the other person.

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Do you feel trapped in your own feelings? If your attraction to persons of the same sex is strong and you cannot accept the fact that you feel that way towards them, do some emotional exercise.

There are six basic universal emotions that you can try on. These basic emotions are joy, anger, disgust, fear, sadness and surprise. For example, a lesbian who cannot accept what she feels toward a friend or a lesbian who doesn’t know how to express her feelings towards a person of the same sex may want to exercise the above emotions.

A friend confided her story that she was head over heals towards her childhood friend. There were many sleepless nights just thinking about her and numerous phone calls just to hear her voice. It was a secret feeling that surprised her. She felt sad about it, was disgusted about her feelings for fear of being dumped and ridiculed. In the end, realizing that she cannot afford to loose a friend, she works toward acceptance which, in the end, brings her joy. Accepting herself for who she is and that there are things in life that she cannot have  made her more joyful and happy. As a result, she felt she has accomplished something big for herself.

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As humans, lesbians do fall in love easily. Although they have different tastes and standards, lesbians by all means are just like men. They are into women who are physically attractive.

A lesbian who finds her best friend attractive will have a hard time dealing with her feelings. She will then have to choose between her feelings and that of keeping the friendship.

Here are some tips that maybe of help when faced with a situation like this:

1. Communicate. Talk with your best friend and tell her how you feel. Explain to her that you’ve been this way all along and that you just kept the feelings to yourself for fear of losing the friendship. If she understands you, great!

2. Avoid her. If you are too shy to communicate then try to avoid her for the time being until such time that you’re ready to talk. By then, you may be sure of your feelings. Chances are she may approach you and ask what is going on. Be prepared to tell her how you feel. Explain that you don’t expect yourself to feel that way and that you are sorry.

Either way, you have to make a decision for yourself and for the sake of your friendship. When I explained to my best friend what I feel towards her, she told me that we can still be the best of friends despite my sexual preference.

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