Are you good looking that you could attract as many people as you could imagine?

Really? Did someone got a crush on you? Sometimes this happens without you knowing it. Either you are too good looking in the eyes of the other person or you have something special that really attracted her to you — something that you or even she cannot explain. And it feels really good, isn’t it? Though flattering, it feels good to know that someone is attracted to you or has a crush on you because it could mean you have something special you are not even aware of.

The Confession

You were both introduced and become friends. Fast forward, the two of you became close. Then a friend told you your newly found friend has a crush on you and it became so obvious from the way she looks at you that indeed she has a crush on you, what would you do? Would you just swim into the deep blue sea?

Think a Million Times

Think before you leap or you could drown yourself into the wrong path. Play safe to protect yourself — emotionally. Not only for yourself, but the people who could be involved.

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The Universal Law of Attraction, considered to be the most powerful law in the universe, has been defined as “like attracts like” or simply put “that which is like unto themselves is drawn.”

Be that as it may, there is reason to believe that women, in general, have the tendency to be attracted to other women. In other words, even a straight woman can be attracted to another woman. So, could it be that all women are slightly lesbians?

What would you do then if a lesbian likes you? Or when a lesbian is attracted to you?

Here are some helpful tips. You can choose to ignore or follow. It’s all up to you.

1. Be straight forward. Don’t panic! It’s normal and it’s overwhelming to hear nice words from a lesbian. It’s surely is good stuff! Say it upfront that while you like her as a friend you don’t like her as your lesbian lover. Say it nicely by adding that you would prefer to have her as a friend than as a lover. Tell her that your relationship with her would be better of as friends than lovers.

2. Ignore her. Lesbians will know when a woman likes them. Ignore her if a lesbian says she likes you. Ignoring can work out best if you don’t really know the other person well. However, if you have been long time friends, ignoring her can be offensive. The best way to handle a situation like this would simply be to follow Tip #1.

3. Ride on. There are many type of lesbians who would consider riding the situation as a good opportunity to get to know the other person. The downside is it can hurt the other person’s feelings if the intention is not good.

4. Spread the word. You may want to scare the lesbian off of you by spreading the word to everyone you knew. Beware! Think before you let emotion dictate you. Ask yourself these questions. What could possibly happen if I tell my friends about the lesbian who likes me? Will they hurt her? Will they say bad words to her? What if I share it only to my mom or perhaps dad? If you are an adult, would sharing too personal issue to your friends affect your personal life and perhaps career?

5. Smile and be happy because it shows you are an attractive person.

The above are tips to help you wade through a situation where you know a lesbian likes you and you do not know what to do or where to go or whom to share it to.

If you have other tips to share, share it here.

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As women, we don’t like to think and hear stories about women dating women, unless you are a lesbian who gets excited about women dating women. Women dating women stories are not like stories about men dating women as these stories are mostly disliked or frowned upon. But, don’t you know that, as a woman, you may already have attracted a lesbian? She may already be keeping an eye on you or she may already be crazy about you. In fact, this could very well happen without you knowing it.

So, how will you know if a lesbian likes you?

Here are tell-tale signs that a lesbian likes you:

1. The way she looks at you. The way a lesbian looks at a woman she likes is different from the way she looks at a woman she doesn’t like or just admire.  A lesbian who admires a woman glance only once in a while, but a lesbian who is attracted to a woman can’t seem to stop staring at her.

Is there a woman that kept staring at you? Can’t she not take off her eyes on you? Chances are she may be a lesbian and is attracted to you. Does she glances at you more often? She may just have admired you, but if she looks at you longer than she would normally do then she may be a lesbian and is attracted to you. If you look at her does she look at you straight in the eye?

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