Love. It is the most beautiful word in the dictionary. Everyone wants it and even chases it. Love is the most beautiful feeling one can have. It fills your life with everything even when you have nothing. But, what if the love you have turns into a nightmare?

Here is a story of a straight woman who was deeply in love with her long-time lesbian partner, but was betrayed and was devastated. They’ve been together for three years living the life every lesbian couple could imagine.

The betrayal

She trusted her lesbian partner. She caters to her needs and all that goes with the role of a housewife. She thinks that everything in their lesbian relationship was okay and that they will never separate ways. They promised to be together for the rest of their lives.

It turns out that her lesbian partner has a lesbian affair with another woman. She was very devastated. She never expected her lesbian partner to betray her after all that she did for her. The lesbian partner she thinks she will have for the rest of her life is having a lesbian affair with another woman.

Dear Jandi,

Breaking up with someone you love is the most painful and stressful thing that you can feel specially if your partner betrayed you. The person you thought you could trust and count on is no longer the person you believed them to be.

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Tags: Lesbian Affair, lesbian couple, lesbian partner, Lesbian Relationship, partner betrayal

Are you a lesbian? If you believe you are, then how lesbian are you? It does not matter how you get it, the thing is, are you really sure you are a lesbian? Try to recollect your past. Did you become a lesbian by birth, by peer influence or the influence of your surroundings? If you did get it by birth, then you will know that deep inside you, there is something that is special and unique unto yourself. You are your own. However, if you did get it by peer influence, then maybe you have to think about where, what and who influenced you. Becoming a lesbian by peer influence can be destructive and could lead to a miserable life later on. Your environment plays a big role too in how you are being molded as a person. If the environment you live in consists of people who are into lesbian relationships then chances are you could become a lesbian too.

The lesbian story

A lesbian couple I knew of had been together for more than two decades. They have two daughters. One just recently got married to a soft butch, someone who dress and act in a masculine manner. The other started to show off some masculine acts and is now getting worse. Although she wears long hairs, she talks and dresses up like a guy.

So, what influenced these two girls?

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Tags: lesbian couple, Lesbian Relationship, soft butch