Have you noticed anything around you? Perhaps among your friends and neighbors? What goes in your mind whenever you see a woman being in a relationship with a lesbian?

One question that could pop up in one’s mind would be — why on earth are these women more interested in having a relationship with a lesbian rather than with a man?

You would never believe what these women would say. And, these are women who are currently in a lesbian relationship.

The reasons they fall in love with these lesbians?

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Tags: Lesbian Love, lesbian lovers, Lesbian Relationship

Can you spot the difference?

Unless you have experienced a lesbian relationship with these two types of women, you can never tell if loving one can be better off than the other.

Lesbian Relationship With a Gay Woman

Entering into a lesbian relationship with a woman who is known to be gay can give you a peace of mind. Why? Consider the following points:

• She is gay. Once gay will always be gay. In other words, there is an assurance that she will not be into guys. And if this is something that worries you a lot then you are pretty safe.
• She is more focused on the relationship. Gay women are known to be more focused on building a good lesbian relationship rather than wait and stick around for a while.
• She knows where you are coming from. A gay woman can relate to your feelings. She can easily understand you from within. Isn’t it not that you both feel the same in the first place?

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Tags: lesbian attraction, Lesbian Love, Lesbian Relationship, lesbian romance

Have you found your one true love? How does it feel to be so in love with the person who changed your world?

True love. This is what everybody is looking for. Whatever your sex preference is, there will surely come a point in your life when you will crave for one special person you wish to have that you can call your own. You wish you can have someone you can spend the rest of your life with. Who says she does not need anyone?

Do you know that it is a nice feeling to have when you can say to your family and friends you belong to someone or that someone belongs to you?

It is. It’s that sense of belongingness that can make your world go round. When you are in love that is so true and that other person feels the same way towards you, it can mean everything to you.

So, how do you know when you have it?

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Tags: Lesbian Happiness, Lesbian Love, true love

Here is a letter from one of our readers asking for the lesbian community’s support. A real and honest advise will surely let her weigh things over so she can move on with less pain in her heart. The tenor of the letter has not been changed, except the name, which we will keep private.

Jandi-

I need some perspective. I fell in love with a woman from work back in February. She’s 10 years older (I’m 39, she’s 49), and married (for 13 years), with a 5 year old son. She was with women prior to getting married, and her husband knew of her bisexuality prior to them marrying. She married a man, she says, because the lesbian drama and break-up was too much for her to handle: she wanted something stable and less emotional. Now she’s emotionally starved and she and her husband get along terribly; they fight constantly even in front of their son and guests, they have no emotional connection (her husband says he’s incapable of “doing the emotional connection thing,” and they haven’t had sex in more than 2 years. (The no sex thing is confirmed by her husband, by the way.)

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Tags: Lesbian Love, Lesbian Relationship

Have you ever been strongly attracted to a woman? Chances are you are a lesbian. But, how do you know exactly if the woman you are strongly attracted to is also attracted to you?

Most lesbians will admit there is no easy answer.

Unless the woman you are strongly attracted to will boldly show signs that she is also interested in you, then there is no way you can tell that she also likes you.

A lesbian experience

I have my share of story to share.

When I was in Grade school, I was strongly attracted to a girl in my class. We became friends that there are times I end up sending her to her house after school. It is my own special way of showing to the girl that I really care about her. We became really close, but she never showed any indication that she is also attracted to me. I was however sure she knows that I am attracted to her, which is pretty obvious from my actions, but I cannot really tell if she is also attracted to me. She never showed any sign at all. Until one day, she visited me at my house, which is very surprising. Then we lost touch after graduation.

That was 30 plus years ago.

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Tags: lesbian attraction, lesbian feelings, Lesbian Love, signs of lesbian attraction

Are you a lesbian thinking of marrying a man to hide your lesbianism? Beware! Marrying a man will never help you escape from the reality. Instead, it may be something that you will be sorry for — for the rest of your life.

Just be who you are

Hiding your lesbianism or female homosexuality by marrying a man may help in some way. Yes, it does, but only temporarily.  While marrying a man to hide your lesbianism is a good way to escape from the mean look of other people because of what you are, it is not the solution, but instead it will be your biggest regret later in life. Yes, marrying a man helps, but not for the long haul. Marrying a man cannot and will never be the solution to your lesbianism problem. The solution? Be who you are.

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Tags: Lesbian Happiness, Lesbian Love