Love. It is the most beautiful word in the dictionary. Everyone wants it and even chases it. Love is the most beautiful feeling one can have. It fills your life with everything even when you have nothing. But, what if the love you have turns into a nightmare?

Here is a story of a straight woman who was deeply in love with her long-time lesbian partner, but was betrayed and was devastated. They’ve been together for three years living the life every lesbian couple could imagine.

The betrayal

She trusted her lesbian partner. She caters to her needs and all that goes with the role of a housewife. She thinks that everything in their lesbian relationship was okay and that they will never separate ways. They promised to be together for the rest of their lives.

It turns out that her lesbian partner has a lesbian affair with another woman. She was very devastated. She never expected her lesbian partner to betray her after all that she did for her. The lesbian partner she thinks she will have for the rest of her life is having a lesbian affair with another woman.

Dear Jandi,

Breaking up with someone you love is the most painful and stressful thing that you can feel specially if your partner betrayed you. The person you thought you could trust and count on is no longer the person you believed them to be.

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Tags: Lesbian Affair, lesbian couple, lesbian partner, Lesbian Relationship, partner betrayal

A question from one of our avid followers:

I met a beautiful lesbian girl about a year ago. There was not anything that I would not do for her or give her. I had always treated her like a queen. We began going out to lunch and sometimes dinner and, on some occasions, she would visit me at my home. The last time we were together she said that she would like to perform domamatrix on me and I agreed! It was the most wonderful eleven hours of passionate love making that I had ever experienced in my life! She kept telling me how much she loved me and how many ways that she loved me, and I believed her. I was already in love with her, now I am hopelessly, head over heels in love with her! I even hope to marry her one day if she would have me but she seems to hate me for not stopping her from making love to me. I have not heard from her in over a month and I have called her a dozen times. I’m afraid that I have lost the only woman that I have ever truly loved. My heart is broken and I feel so lost without her in my life. I would do almost anything to have her back. I had told her that I would commit to only her prior to our love making. I had also been without sex almost five years before her and I had gotten together.

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Tags: Lesbian Relationship, love lost

Are you a lesbian? If you believe you are, then how lesbian are you? It does not matter how you get it, the thing is, are you really sure you are a lesbian? Try to recollect your past. Did you become a lesbian by birth, by peer influence or the influence of your surroundings? If you did get it by birth, then you will know that deep inside you, there is something that is special and unique unto yourself. You are your own. However, if you did get it by peer influence, then maybe you have to think about where, what and who influenced you. Becoming a lesbian by peer influence can be destructive and could lead to a miserable life later on. Your environment plays a big role too in how you are being molded as a person. If the environment you live in consists of people who are into lesbian relationships then chances are you could become a lesbian too.

The lesbian story

A lesbian couple I knew of had been together for more than two decades. They have two daughters. One just recently got married to a soft butch, someone who dress and act in a masculine manner. The other started to show off some masculine acts and is now getting worse. Although she wears long hairs, she talks and dresses up like a guy.

So, what influenced these two girls?

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Tags: lesbian couple, Lesbian Relationship, soft butch

Have you noticed anything around you? Perhaps among your friends and neighbors? What goes in your mind whenever you see a woman being in a relationship with a lesbian?

One question that could pop up in one’s mind would be — why on earth are these women more interested in having a relationship with a lesbian rather than with a man?

You would never believe what these women would say. And, these are women who are currently in a lesbian relationship.

The reasons they fall in love with these lesbians?

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Tags: Lesbian Love, lesbian lovers, Lesbian Relationship

Can you spot the difference?

Unless you have experienced a lesbian relationship with these two types of women, you can never tell if loving one can be better off than the other.

Lesbian Relationship With a Gay Woman

Entering into a lesbian relationship with a woman who is known to be gay can give you a peace of mind. Why? Consider the following points:

• She is gay. Once gay will always be gay. In other words, there is an assurance that she will not be into guys. And if this is something that worries you a lot then you are pretty safe.
• She is more focused on the relationship. Gay women are known to be more focused on building a good lesbian relationship rather than wait and stick around for a while.
• She knows where you are coming from. A gay woman can relate to your feelings. She can easily understand you from within. Isn’t it not that you both feel the same in the first place?

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Tags: lesbian attraction, Lesbian Love, Lesbian Relationship, lesbian romance

Here is a letter from one of our readers asking for the lesbian community’s support. A real and honest advise will surely let her weigh things over so she can move on with less pain in her heart. The tenor of the letter has not been changed, except the name, which we will keep private.

Jandi-

I need some perspective. I fell in love with a woman from work back in February. She’s 10 years older (I’m 39, she’s 49), and married (for 13 years), with a 5 year old son. She was with women prior to getting married, and her husband knew of her bisexuality prior to them marrying. She married a man, she says, because the lesbian drama and break-up was too much for her to handle: she wanted something stable and less emotional. Now she’s emotionally starved and she and her husband get along terribly; they fight constantly even in front of their son and guests, they have no emotional connection (her husband says he’s incapable of “doing the emotional connection thing,” and they haven’t had sex in more than 2 years. (The no sex thing is confirmed by her husband, by the way.)

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Tags: Lesbian Love, Lesbian Relationship