There are advantages as well as disadvantages of being a woman in terms of sex appeal. One advantage is that a woman has the possibility of attracting both persons of the same and opposite sex. And many women have proven themselves that sometimes that’s the case. While this scenario could be flattering to a woman who is able to attract both men and women, it also has many disadvantages.

Yes, it can be fun, exciting and flattering if you, as a woman, is able to attract both persons of the same and opposite sex. But, what if you are already married? Now, that’s a disadvantage.

While a woman who is single may find it enjoyable to be with another woman, it could turn a family life apart in the case of a married woman. A single woman, unlike married women, can choose to have a lesbian affair. She may be free to do so as she has no commitment with anyone. And, unlike single women, a married woman’s emotional freedom is tied to the marriage vows. While there are husbands who openly accept their wives having a lesbian affair, still others hate to hear and see their wives having a lesbian affair. The freedom to have an affair for a married woman is no longer present. And if she choose to do so, there are great repercussions she has to face.

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Y-Woo.com received a very interesting story from a man who accidentally discovered his wife’s lesbian affair. Below is his comment to one of our articles, entitled “Lesbian Affair with a Married Woman” with question on how to get his wife and his wife’s lover to be open up more to being hugged by him and letting it linger — an affection that he feels should be mandatory in their three way relationship.

“Interesting, I’m a married man that accidentally discovered my wife’s long term lesbian affair. I came home a day early from a business trip, unannounced.

A little background statement so the scene will be clearer. We had discussed over several years of including another woman in a threeway. I know the most popular male fantasy.

We have been married for almost 15 years and together including early stages of dating for 20. Have two kids both are teens. Have what I’d call a good marriage. Wife has a super high sex drive so the sex never dropped off. Afterwards, learning from her what she was after from each was different so her being bi, she had meeting each of our (her lover’s, both husband and Lesbian lover) needs. She got most of the foreplay and soft love from her and she was primed and ready for the more aggressive straight sex we had, and yes often in the same day.

Well, back to the afternoon when I walked (slipped) in, with our anniversary coming up I just assumed that this was getting to know one another sex to make the 3way better or less awkward. So I strip down and joined in, the lover knowing who I was and afraid of both losing all contact with the wife and the fallout for the wife if she objected never objected, she herself admitted that she had had somewhat good relations with men in the past, was how she allowed herself to just go with it. Wasn’t until in the aftermath that their 3/4 confession was revealed. I say 3/4 confession as there is still something they both held back, like exactly how long for one. You know us guys, we want to know all the who, what where, when, why, and how often. Most was revealed but there were a few questions they talked around, ignored or refused to answer.

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Sexuality is a complex aspect of our personality and self. It is most defined by our sexual thoughts, desires and longings, erotic fantasies, turn-ons and experiences in life. It is the force that empowers us to express and display strong, emotional feelings for another person. One might be attracted to another person, but that ‘thing’ that made her attract to another may not always be sexual. Sometimes, we find people attractive because of their sense of humor, personality, likeability, compatibility, or intelligence.

So, can you hide your sexuality? It is very difficult to hide your sexuality if you are a lesbian. It’s even more difficult if you have been raised in a strict or religious family.

With the best intention of being true to ourselves, there are occasions when pressures from relatives and friends might cause you to live life as a straight person even when you know, deep down, you are gay.

Often, counselling can be of benefit, but it won’t really help if you know that you are not who you pretend to be. Your sexuality will always reveal the truth in yourself because it is part of your physical, emotional, intellectual, and social self. It affects how you think of yourself and how you relate to others, as well as how they relate to you, and it is a part of you throughout your entire life.

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