What Do You Do When The One Who Broke Your Heart Is The Only One Who Can Fix It

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Love is the  most beautiful thing to have. It can make you crazy and crave for someone. It can make promises and let accept all the flaws, the mistakes, and all imperfections.  It recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences and penetrates walls. Indeed, love is such a beautiful thing that you do not consider that someone your number one, but your only one. After all, that someone is the only one that matters to you.

Love, though beautiful, is the hardest thing to earn and the most painful thing to lose. When things fall apart and your heart starts to bleed, all you can do is stare blankly and feel it is the loneliest, lowest and saddest moment of your life.

Do not hold together what must fall apart because nothing lasts forever. Love crumbles so a better one can begin. When things fall apart, consider the possibility that life knocked it down on purpose. Not to punish you, but to prompt you to build something that better suits your personality and your purpose. Believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go. Things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they are right. You believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself. Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together because when you are so deeply in love you are sometimes blinded of who the person truly is. Believe that there is always sunshine after the rain. We strive our whole lives to love people unconditionally, but sometimes we need to get rid of people unconditionally.

Move on, but never fall in love so easily and right away. Never… never fall in love with a broken heart because it is still in pieces and some of them still belongs to someone else so you cannot give your heart to the next lucky person completely.

Be strong. Make them wonder why you are still smiling. Make them aware that you are rare. Stay positive and keep fighting. Stay brave, ambitious, focused and strong. Know that the pain will pass and when it does you will be stronger and better. Remind yourself that obstacles are designed to make you stronger and only the weak avoid them. Keep in mind that you are not one of them. Wake up everyday stronger than yesterday. Face your fears and wipe your tears. Remember that you have to be at your strongest when you are feeling at your weakest. Do not let anyone break your soul because the greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do.

Laugh. Laugh as much as you breath and for as long as you live.

Be the best version of you. To be the best you must be able to handle the worst. What you plant now, you will harvest later. Tell yourself, “One day, I will be at the place I wanted to be.” Do not be afraid to fail, be afraid not to try. If you are persistent, you will get it. Be the kind of person that makes other people want to be with you.

 

 

 

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  1. Margo King

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