What is in a woman that attracts a lesbian?
Women are created equal, but there are unique qualities of a woman, physical or not, that can draw a lesbian‘s attention.
So, what exactly is in a woman that attracts lesbians?
Taste of a Lesbian
A lesbian‘s taste on women is no different from the taste of men. Like men, lesbians have different tastes. Generally, lesbians like women of all types, but there are qualities of a woman that may draw a lesbian‘s attention or can glue a lesbian’s eyes.
There are those drawn by the personality of a woman, while others are attracted by the physical appearance of a woman. There are also women who can easily catch the eyes of a lesbian like the ones with beautiful face, nice hair, butt, legs, etc. Other lesbians are attracted to dark haired, brown-eyed feminine type of woman, while others like blue-eyed, blonde-haired athletic woman.
Women are Attractive
Generally, women are attractive in the eyes of a lesbian. Exuding confidence can be a plus but what can glue a lesbian eyes towards a woman is her unique beauty. She may have the prettiest face on earth but with a bad attitude she may also be frowned upon. To a lesbian, what makes a woman attractive is being who she really is. It may be her aura, her being mysterious, being a reserved woman, intelligent or kind that can draw a lesbian’s attention.
So, what attracts a lesbian? Here are the five attributes of a perfect woman:
1. A woman who can help with household chores and has a good job;
2. A woman who can make you laugh;
3. A woman who you can trust;
4. A woman who likes being with you in bed or not; and
5. It’s important that each of these four women don’t find out about each other.
Joke! But, seriously? What attracts a lesbian to a woman is her inner beauty. That’s a personal opinion, but there are those drawn into the physical appearance of a woman. The physical attributes can start from a woman’s hair then way down to how proportionate the rest of a woman’s body is, which could be from shoulders to the curvature and fullness of the breasts. Then there is the tummy area to the hips, the thighs to the calfs, the ankles and even the feet. Still somehow even with all that has been mentioned, certain attributes would appeal to different lesbians at different levels.
So, what attracts you to a woman? We want to hear your side.


At first her Joie de vivre attracted me then she made me wonder about what made her be so full of joy. And I started to want to talk to her or her to talk to me then I looked at her when she was walking in front of me and that was the cherry on the cake..I had never found a woman so attractive. That was it, I knew she was my kind in every ways plus I usually don’t allow others to easily make me agree on terms I’m not keen at all to agree on but with her it was like I just wanted to give her a way with me because I could not resist in a way. Though I had made my opinion straight forward unbending on some other matter she won me over later on in her own way. At times the other may not know the power you give them over you or they may just feel..not sure…there are times which are special in meaningfull ways and only the ones in the relationship could tell.
i usually go for mysterious women but my gf drew me in with her voice and personality. i started off as her friend and gradually we started become really good friends. i knew from the off that she was a lesbian so one day i plucked up the courage and asked her out and i find myself wanting to ring her all the time just so i can hear her voice. her eyes are also amazing but if a woman acts mysterious around me then i find that really sexy and i will be hooked providing the personality matches.
@kayleigh – there you go… that courage is all we need if we like someone. without courage, there is no victory. yes, voice is a great plus. it’s that voice you want to hear every time you close your eyes at night and open your eyes in the morning.